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ForeverAdam
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Thanks for your response. I accept the early Church’s allowance of the dissolution of a sacramental marriage for the purpose of one entering the monastic state. The Orthodox Church recognizes this exception while expanding this principle of exception to other important issues (spousal abuse, threat to a spouse’s life, abandonment of spouse, etc.). These exceptions are patterned on Christ’s own exception to the indissolubility of marriage for cases of sexual immorality in Matt. 5:32 and Matt. 19:9. However, we are given a lot of slack by Roman Catholics for this extension of ecclesiastical divorce. It needs to be proven that this condemnation of our practice is based on Holy Tradition. Therefore, I look forward to any evidence from the early Church that you can provide that shows that the consummation of a marriage renders divorce impossible. In short, you need to prove that the consummation of the marriage is what really makes the marriage sacramental, and thus, incapable of divorce. I’ll admit that I’ve never found anything in any of the Fathers, Wedding Liturgies, and general consciousness of the early Church that ever hinted at such an understanding.For now, let me just inform you that a divorce for an unconsummated sacramental marriage is granted only under one circumstance - with the agreement of BOTH parties so one or both of the parties may lead a religious life (OTC - “open to correction”). This has been in the Church’s Tradition since the first millennium. If you can fathom the reason the early Church did it, that might help you to settle your question.
God bless,
Adam