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josie_L
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The pope is not “one man in charge of a very large Christian denomination” (by the way the Church of Christ is not a Christian denomination), i.e., he is a leader not a dictator. Moreover, what rules are you referring to? And priests not being able to marry (in the latin rite) is a discipline not a dogma of the church therefore it is liable to change.Thanks for the web sites. I will do some more research. Can I ask: doesn’t it bother you that one man is in charge of a very large Christian denomination? He makes rules for the church and some of those rules are not biblical in foundation. I will admit this last time around I was hoping for a younger Pope, someone more in tune with the times. However, I then realized that even a younger man would, more than likely, follow to a “T” the rules of the church and his being the head of it all. It was man-made that Priests not be allowed to marry. How do you feel about that?
Kathy
Married clergy in other Churches
Focus on the Family, is one of the largest and most respected Evangelical organizations. They have a ministry completely devoted to Protestant clergy support called the “Clergy Care Network.” In the June 2007, Focus on the Family magazine had two articles called “The pastor…at home” and “Ministry spotlight.” It highlighted the difficulties of being a family man and a clergy.
By far, says Shari, the most common requests the correspondence team receive [from pastors] are for prayer and guidance concerning marriage, parenting, pornography, infidelity and child rearing issues causing division between parents… (Pg. 26, Focus on the Family Canada Magazine, June 2007)
…we [a Pastor and his wife] raised our boys to know that we loved the church but we loved them even more. That did not always sit well with some of our congregations’ leadership, but …the boys came first…in many cases …pastors kids shun the church because of the competition they felt for their parents’ attention. (Pg. 7, Focus on the Family Canada Magazine, June 2007)
Family has to come first. I played the music for a Pentecostal men’s retreat. They gave some statistics about protestant clergy.
•1500 per month leave the Pentecostal ministry
•2/3rds quit before they retire.
•14 years is the average length as a Pastor (Pentecostal Assemblies of God)
In addition the Focus on the Family Stewardship Update June 2007, reports that:
•8 out of 10 pastors and their spouses are discouraged or dealing with depression
•80% of pastors say they have insufficient time with their spouses
The famous Evangelical Evangelist Chuck Swindol says “The demands of ministry can take their toll on our home and family and then our walk with God.”
In other words, it is totally stressful to run a church and run a home. At some point the Catholic Church may decide to go down the road of married clergy but it would have many problems and at this point we are sticking to a celibate clergy. **The Lord Jesus and the apostle Paul make their preference very clear in Scripture, celibacy is better. (more below) **
The Catholic Church has always known that a Pastor who is a family man has a heart that is naturally divided. History shows that there was always a tradition of celibate priests in the early Church, although it was not exclusive.