I get what you are saying but some sins are more grave then others, which require sacramental reconciliation.
Yes, there are. However they differ from individual to individual. Being angry at someone may be the thing that condemns one. Murder may be the thing for another, but murder in a fit of passion when a person was half crazed (while I can guarantee it would still be confessed) may not damn a person.
The idea that just be virtue of what they are some sins are more grave than others creates a “system of checks”. So long as I don’t do such-and-such I’m in a “state of grace”. It’s a Western creation.
Even St. James says there are sins that kill.
I’d like the passage please, so I can be more clear, but what you’re saying doesn’t conflict with Orthodox doctrine - there ARE some sins that kill.
I don’t see why there would be an issue with the Church warning the Faithful that certain sin contrary to Divine law is worthy of damnation.
Because they’re measuring what is “worthy of damnation” by man’s measure. ALL sin is contrary to Divine Law. It is only for God to judge what is worthy of damnation.
With all do respect the Orthodox view seems more dangerous and wishy washy. It would seem there is a big door there to justify grave sinful behavior.
The funny thing is I see the Catholic way as doing that. One doesn’t have to be completely honest with oneself about one’s intentions, behavior, and the discovery of rationalizations, they just have to compare what they’ve done with a list of sins. Was it mortal? Yeah? Confess. Venial? Don’t need to. You could if you’d like, but it’s not ‘required’. It turns your relationship with God into a formula; it’s a checklist. In Orthodoxy one has to be completely honest with one’s priest, wrestle with their true self and admit guilt in a wide variety of situations.
A real world example a friend of mine used when I first began investigating Orthodoxy - He had an issue with masturbation and pornography, but also with anger. As a Catholic his priests were always focusing on the first, because that’s the ‘greater’ sin. In Orthodoxy his priest said, because he was at that point addicted to the porn and self-abuse, he was more concerned about the willful temper tantrums that this man used to justify rage against friends, family, and his wife. The man, for the first time, had to admit that it was not the masturbation that was truly endangering his soul, but his temper. The temper his Catholic priests had always condoned with “everyone loses their temper now and then, that’s not a mortal sin.”
May another Catholic priest have treated the situation differently? Of course! However the very mentality of ‘ranking’ sins made those Catholic priests always focus on what they considered the higher ranking sin, despite the fact that the man didn’t really have control over his actions there (addiction) and was aware that he “had a temper”.