I’d also like to ask what some of those counter-examples would be.
For Irenaeus, one can give the example of the Easter Controversy, where Eusebius records (Church History 5.23-24) that he was (true to his name) instrumental in restoring the peace after Victor, Archbishop of Rome, broke the peace of the universal Church by attempting to cut the Asian bishops off from the common union. Surely if Irenaeus felt free to disagree with Victor, then the often provided prooftext from his
Against Heresies (that all Churches should agree [convenire ad] with Rome) cannot be understood to mean that one must always submit to Rome or that Rome is inerrant when solemnly declaring something. now it could be argued that the Easter Controversy was just over a matter of discipline and not over a matter of faith or morals, but this seems to me to verge on special pleading. For if it were over a matter of discipline, what would be the need for Victor to cut off the bishops of Asia? Furthermore, If that distinction is to be admitted, it must be shown that Irenaeus knew of that distinction, used it regularly in his works, and implicitly had that distinction in mind when he wrote that all Churches should agree with Rome.
Now also regarding the Eastern Controversy, there is the response of Polycrates to Victor’s demand that they change their date of Easter (this can be found in Eusebius’ Church History Book V, chapter 24). He responds, among other things that:6. All these observed the fourteenth day of the passover according to the Gospel, deviating in no respect, but following the rule of faith. And I also, Polycrates, the least of you all, do according to the tradition of my relatives, some of whom I have closely followed. For seven of my relatives were bishops; and I am the eighth. And my relatives always observed the day when the people put away the leaven.
- I, therefore, brethren, who have lived sixty-five years in the Lord, and have met with the brethren throughout the world, and have gone through every Holy Scripture, am not affrighted by terrifying words [that is, the words of Victor]. For those greater than I have said ‘We ought to obey God rather than man.’ Acts 5:29
newadvent.org/fathers/250105.htmHis quickness to cast aside the judgment of the bishop of Rome seems to indicate that he either recognized no primacy, or that if he did, he did not recognize the primacy as being one which possesses divine authority, but only the authority of man.
With Cyprian, there is the obvious flaw that he later broke his relations with Rome, after Stephen attempted to overstep his bounds. Actions speak louder than words, I suppose, and while it might be argued that Cyprian was being duplicitous, I think it is more likely that he did not mean his words indicating a Roman primacy in the way that Catholic apologists try to interpret them. On the topic of the controversy with Pope Stephen, there are also Firmilian’s harsh words, accusing Stephen of ‘vainly pretending the authority of the apostles’ (Cyprian, Epistle 74)
Another who is commonly quoted in favor of a Petrine primacy is St. John Chrysostom. But St. John Chrysostom also writes that:In speaking of Peter, the recollection of another Peter has come to me" (that is, Flavian of Antioch) "our common father and teacher, who has succeeded to the virtue of Peter, and also to his chair. For this is the one great prerogative of our city, that it received the coryphaeus of the apostles as its teacher in the beginning. For it was right that she who first was adorned with the name of Christians before the whole world, should receive the first of the apostles as her pastor. But though we received him as teacher, we did not retain him to the end, but gave him up to Royal Rome. Nay, but we did retain him till the end; for we do not retain the body of Peter but we retain the faith of Peter as though it were Peter himself; and while we retain the faith of Peter, we have Peter himself."clearly denying that Peter belongs properly to any place, but stating that Peter is where the faith of Peter is. This homily, incidentally appears not to be available in English, but you can find it
here in Greek. See lines 717-723.
Another case is St. Jerome who rather embarrassingly throws the idea of a Petrine primacy under the bus (stating that its only purpose was to prevent schism, and that Peter was chosen instead of John that John might be protected from the envy of others) in order to extol the virtues of virginity in his polemics against JovinianusBut you say, Matthew 16:18 the Church was founded upon Peter: although elsewhere the same is attributed to all the Apostles, and they all receive the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and the strength of the Church depends upon them all alike, yet one among the twelve is chosen so that when a head has been appointed, there may be no occasion for schism. But why was not John chosen, who was a virgin? Deference was paid to age, because Peter was the elder: one who was a youth, I may say almost a boy, could not be set over men of advanced age; and a good master who was bound to remove every occasion of strife among his disciples, and who had said to them, John 14:27 “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you,” and, “He that is the greater among you, let him be the least of all,” would not be thought to afford cause of envy against the youth whom he had loved. We maybe sure that John was then a boy because ecclesiastical history most clearly proves that he lived to the reign of Trajan, that is, he fell asleep in the sixty-eighth year after our Lord’s passion, as I have briefly noted in my treatise on Illustrious Men. Peter is an Apostle, and John is an Apostle— the one a married man, the other a virgin; but Peter is an Apostle only, John is both an Apostle and an Evangelist, and a prophet. An Apostle, because he wrote to the Churches as a master; an Evangelist, because he composed a Gospel, a thing which no other of the Apostles, excepting Matthew, did; a prophet, for he saw in the island of Patmos, to which he had been banished by the Emperor Domitian as a martyr for the Lord, an Apocalypse containing the boundless mysteries of the future. Tertullian, more over, relates that he was sent to Rome, and that having been plunged into a jar of boiling oil he came out fresher and more active than when he went in. But his very Gospel is widely different from the rest. Matthew as though he were writing of a man begins thus: “The book of the Generation of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the son of Abraham;” Luke begins with the priesthood of Zacharias; Mark with a prophecy of the prophets Malachi and Isaiah. The first has the face of a man, on account of the genealogical table; the second, the face of a calf, on account of the priesthood; the third, the face of a lion, on account of the voice of one crying in the desert, Isaiah 40:3 “Prepare ye the way of the Lord, make His paths straight.” But John like an eagle soars aloft, and reaches the Father Himself, and says, John 1:1 “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God,” and so on. The virgin writer expounded mysteries which the married could not, and to briefly sum up all and show how great was the privilege of John, or rather of virginity in John, the Virgin Mother John 19:26-27 was entrusted by the Virgin Lord to the Virgin disciple.
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Those are just a few examples that I can think of off the top of my head.