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thewanderer
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I disagree that it is obvious. I also preffer the OF, but am honestly not offended when people talk about the NO, so again I can only assume you have had some bad experiences with people who purposefully used this term in a derogatory fashion. I have never heard it used in a derogatory fashion, and I was only introduced to the language of EF/OF on this forum. I realize that you really believe that they meant it in a derogatory fashion, but there really are many other reasons, the primary of which being thats just how they’ve always heard it. Even if they do refer to the EF and the NO, it is very likely that that is how they are used to hearing them reffered. Or it could simply be the case that they have never before heard of a reason to use one over the other and so use them interchangeably. I know I have done that when writing posts, only to catch myself and change it in time because I was afraid of someone getting upset and assuming I meant it in a derogatory fashion. So I must disagree that the obvious answer is that they meant it in a derogatory manner. I could very easily have done the same thing and trust me, I would not have meant it in a derogatory fashion. Assuming that others mean it in such a way is only going to cause hard feelings between people.I’m sorry but I disagree. When someone quite correctly uses “EF” to describe one form of the Mass and then uses “NO” in the same sentence that begs further scrutiny. Why have they adopted the Pope’s nomenclature for one form of the Mass (which they clearly prefer based on their other comments) and not the Ordinary Form of the Mass?
Why do such people typically dig-in when someone charitably explains to them that many view “novus ordo” and particularly “NO” to be pejorative labels? How could they not intuitively realize that “NO Mass” is going to offend many? Why do they invariably further denigrate the OF Mass as they are digging in?
My own opinion is that they do realize that many find such labels offensive. Sadly they use the labels as a quiet way to denigrate the OF Mass and/or to antagonize those that love the OF Mass. Either ways it’s very obvious.