Just as an aside, there are some of us ‘oldsters’ on here who learned to ‘type’ when dinosaurs ruled the earth. Back in the day, both with the keyboard and those quaint instruments, pen and paper, to write in “capitalized letters” was a way of making an emphasis and was emphatically not considered ‘shouting’. To this day my dear sweet mother who turns 80 next year, a more proper lady you will never find, writes to me in her Palmer penmanship with virtually every other word written in all caps’. It’s her style, our family style in fact. . .
Then came the Internet and ‘netiquette’ which in many ways is very different from ye olde Emily Post etiquette. Some of us still, when tired, hurried, or forgetful (especially the last) will out of habit ‘capitalize’ as we had spent 30, 40, 50 years or more writing and typing in that style with never a word of complaint or being told it was ‘shouting’ or wrong. So we forget.
Therefore, if you have been treated to the occasional post where a poster capitalizes here and there–please give them the benefit of the doubt. In many cases they were not ‘shouting’. They were making an emphasis in the ‘old way’. A simple PM to them of “did you realize I took that all caps word or phrase as shouting at me” would result in an apology I’m sure, without the need to either humiliate the poster in front of all the other posters, or to play the ‘martyr card’ of 'somebody is shouting at me."
Of course, some do shout. Deliberately. But most of us don’t. . .and our ‘caps’ are merely antiquated ‘hangers on’ from a more civilized and less acrimonious and litiginous past.