Yes to both - one way to be complicit in a sin is by advising or counselling others to do it. One who does so incurs at least as much moral guilt as the one who actually does the sinful act.
In the same way as advising or counselling someone to commit a crime makes one liable to the same guilt and punishment as the one who physically does it.
Whether the person is pregnant or not makes not the slightest difference to the sinfulness of the act.