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CorieDreams
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I’ve been struggling with my faith for a bit, and finding answers to questions. I also spend a lot of time trying to learn about the faith, and have come to rely on the catechism and prayer and advice to help make decisions if I don’t know if something is sinful or immoral or not.
I was doing good. I came across this passage in the catechism:
1787 Man is sometimes confronted by situations that make moral judgments less assured and decision difficult. But he must always seriously seek what is right and good and discern the will of God expressed in divine law.
1788 To this purpose, man strives to interpret the data of experience and the signs of the times assisted by the virtue of prudence, by the advice of competent people, and by the help of the Holy Spirit and his gifts.
1789 Some rules apply in every case:
“It must be observed, however, that where the question is one not merely of positive law but of securing a certain practical result, only the “safer” course may be followed. No opinion however probable, is allowed to take precedence of the most certain means of securing such ends; e.g. in providing for the validity of the sacraments, in discharging obligations of justice, or in avoiding injury to others. Thus doubtful baptisms and ordinations must be repeated conditionally.”
And now I worry. What does that mean? The “safer” option when “avoiding injury to others?” I’ve worried before about some of my actions causing scandal, or leading loved ones into temptation unwillingly, but the advice I sought from others and from priests told me it was not an issue to worry about, when I gave them my exact details. But should I ignore that and search for the “safer” option? How much “safer” dpes it mean? TO stop speaking to some people? Become more isolated? cut off friendships “just in case?” I know those might sound drastic, but aren’t they indeed “safer”? I’m very distressed, please. Should I follow the catechism, which says to follow the golden rule and to not willfully tempt others, which goes along with the advice I was given? Or is the encyclopedia right, and I need to choose the most strict path?
I was doing good. I came across this passage in the catechism:
1787 Man is sometimes confronted by situations that make moral judgments less assured and decision difficult. But he must always seriously seek what is right and good and discern the will of God expressed in divine law.
1788 To this purpose, man strives to interpret the data of experience and the signs of the times assisted by the virtue of prudence, by the advice of competent people, and by the help of the Holy Spirit and his gifts.
1789 Some rules apply in every case:
- One may never do evil so that good may result from it;
- the Golden Rule: "Whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them."56
- charity always proceeds by way of respect for one’s neighbor and his conscience: "Thus sinning against your brethren and wounding their conscience . . . you sin against Christ."57 Therefore "it is right not to . . . do anything that makes your brother stumble."58
“It must be observed, however, that where the question is one not merely of positive law but of securing a certain practical result, only the “safer” course may be followed. No opinion however probable, is allowed to take precedence of the most certain means of securing such ends; e.g. in providing for the validity of the sacraments, in discharging obligations of justice, or in avoiding injury to others. Thus doubtful baptisms and ordinations must be repeated conditionally.”
And now I worry. What does that mean? The “safer” option when “avoiding injury to others?” I’ve worried before about some of my actions causing scandal, or leading loved ones into temptation unwillingly, but the advice I sought from others and from priests told me it was not an issue to worry about, when I gave them my exact details. But should I ignore that and search for the “safer” option? How much “safer” dpes it mean? TO stop speaking to some people? Become more isolated? cut off friendships “just in case?” I know those might sound drastic, but aren’t they indeed “safer”? I’m very distressed, please. Should I follow the catechism, which says to follow the golden rule and to not willfully tempt others, which goes along with the advice I was given? Or is the encyclopedia right, and I need to choose the most strict path?