This is the very problem my family is going through. I never thought I would have to be less Catholic in order to actually BE Catholic. No hymns to speak of, no altar rail, poor preaching ( usually), the Eucharist treated casually by most , and all in all this makes for a Liturgy without the dignity God deserves. Feeling this way, should we become Catholic anyway? I think we may do it anyway. As one priest said, " Come on in , it’s awful!."
Whenever this subject comes up hear on line, the responders usually misunderstand the problems for us Episcopalians. To see what we are talking about , slip into a faithful Episcopalian service some Sunday ( if you can find one). Hold yourself back, you may want to convert, but don’t. It’s great beauty and dignity are a revelation to most folks. (This is why the Pope has asked Archbishop Myers of Newark to start a process for helping Episcopalians come into the Catholic Church-- with their own liturgy. ) Did you happen to catch the funeral of President Ford today ? This service was only slightly more beautiful than you might find at a local parish. Honestly. Many catholics around here seem to feel a mass is just fine as long as it is valid. A lot goes on in the mass besides the reception of the Sacrament and all of those other things serve to woo a person to God or repel him as the case may be. I am not talking about entertainment. I am talking about allowing the soul to readily commune with God. This was the problem we have had: it is as if we were asked every Sunday to treat God disrespectfully. It gets on our nerves after a while!
Please forgive my bull in a china closet post. As I said , we are seriously thinking about joining --and soon.