He is taking the path of canon 603 in the Roman church. We are trying to find a hermit who can give him the hermit training, and get him into the formal process. He will likely have to have a few months in a monastery, also.
Aspiring hermits in our church are encouraged to write their own plan of life, and wear the habit one day a week indoors without outside contact (email and phone are exceptions) for a year, then talk to their bishop about becoming a hermit.
In this case, since he does desire to eventually have a laura, we have posted his link to see if there is any interest. If there isn’t, there is no need to respond. If there is, we have a yahoo group for just such a purpose. In our church, the group incorporates as non-profit, then they will live the rule together for a period of time untl they get their “working constitutions.” When the “Seven Pillars” of New Foundations (rule, constitutions, horarium, formation program/novitiate, remunerative work, stable source of habit parts, and four persevering members) are completed, then the group approaches the bishop.
Blessings,
Cloisters