I was asked by a volunteer at the nursing home to receive communion. I gave them Communion but after words the Eucharistic Minister I was with, asked if he was Catholic. I hadn’t asked.
Should I ask the question “Are You Catholic?” to people who are not on my list of catholic residents?
The diocese of Santa FE has a thorough guideline published online with references to documents that govern the do’s and don’ts.
archdiocesesantafe.org/Offices/SacramentalPolicies/GuidelinesEMHC.pdf
A couple of quotes
“If there are Catholic family members or Catholic staff present, the EMHC should ask them if they would like to receive Holy Communion as well.”
This is exactly what your friend had done. You should be proactive and offer the invitation first that way no one is left awkward and confused later. By you properly phrasing the request then if someone who is not Catholic or not properly disposed to recieve the Eucharist you can kindly invite them to communion service and let them know just to recieve a blessing, and you will contact the parish office, so that a priest can make arrangements to hear their confession or have the pastoral staff contact the person for RCIA program etc.
After the above quote from the document it states the following.
“EMHC who are taking Holy Communion to hospitals are to present the host in a prayerful manner. They are not to make judgments regarding the suitability of the person to receive the Holy Communion; such concerns are to be referred to the pastor or pastoral care coordinator.”
If you have done your part in the first paragraph and someone presents themselves as a Catholic to recieve the Eucharist then you can freely administer sacrament. If you do have concerns though you are required to follow up with the pastor.
Warning of what? Christ is not for you!?
Of course you give them Holy Communion. How can you even ask the question?
1Cor 11:27 “Whoever, therefore, eats the bread and drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord.”
Jesus in speaking with the Syrophoenician woman in Mk 7:24-30 states, “for it is not right to take the children’s bread and throw it to the dogs.”
And the book of James warns those who are ministers and are ignorant of their duties and responsibilities.
Being given the blessing and charge to carry Jesus to the ill and shutins is a big responsibility. A mission that should be taken seriously in prayer and devotion to God. They are not delivering tuna fish sandwiches.