Oh, I so disagree with you. I don’t want to get into Scripture battles, but if I am pastorally caring for the sick and elderly, I care for them without condition. RCIA? I don’t think so. Reconciliation instead? If they are not in the habit of confession, then what help will that be?
If someone is hungry and I have the Bread of Life, I feed them. Do you really think that Christ is standing by with a check list? ‘You, you, not you…’
Scriptural battles are not at all necessary, since the Magesterium is entirely clear with regards to the laws and teachings of the Church on this matter. It is not up for debate and it is not up for personal interpretation.
Since I trust you are not a bishop and probably not even a priest, you do not have the pastoral authority to make these decisions. It is disobedient, not to mention ignorant, to proceed in the manner you are suggesting.
***Can. 840 The **sacraments of the New Testament were instituted by Christ the Lord and entrusted to the Church.
As actions of Christ and the Church, they are signs and means which express and strengthen the faith, render worship to God, and effect the sanctification of humanity and thus contribute in the greatest way to establish, strengthen, and manifest ecclesiastical communion. Accordingly, in the celebration of the sacraments the sacred ministers and the other members of the Christian faithful must use the greatest veneration and necessary diligence.
Can. 841 Since the sacraments are the same for the whole Church and belong to the divine deposit, it is only for the supreme authority of the Church to approve or define the requirements for their validity; it is for the same or another competent authority according to the norm of ⇒ can. 838 §§3 and 4 to decide what pertains to their licit celebration, administration, and reception and to the order to be observed in their celebration.
**Can. 842 §1. **A person who has not received baptism cannot be admitted validly to the other sacraments.
§2. The sacraments of baptism, confirmation, and the Most Holy Eucharist are interrelated in such a way that they are required for full Christian initiation.
**Can. 843 §1. **Sacred ministers cannot deny the sacraments to those who seek them at appropriate times, are properly disposed, and are not prohibited by law from receiving them.
§2. Pastors of souls and other members of the Christian faithful, according to their respective ecclesiastical function, have the duty to take care that those who seek the sacraments are prepared to receive them by proper evangelization and catechetical instruction, attentive to the norms issued by competent authority.
Can. 844 §1. Catholic ministers administer the sacraments licitly to Catholic members of the Christian faithful alone, who likewise receive them licitly from Catholic ministers alone, without prejudice to the prescripts of §§2, 3, and 4 of this canon, and ⇒ can. 861, §2.*
Look at Canon 843. You have the DUTY as an extraordinary minister of the Eucharist to take care that those who seek to receive Holy Communion have been prepared to receive them.
In other words, it is not a matter of " 'You, you, not you…" It is a matter of “you have been prepared, you have been prepared, you are in need of full reception into the Church before you are prepared…”** Someone who is not prepared to be fully received into the Church is not prepared to receive Holy Communion.** If someone is prepared to be received into the Church, then by all means alert your pastor and allow them to get that show on the road. I have no doubt that your bishop has ways for the pastors in his diocese to handle this process with regards to those who are hospitalized.