J
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In this regard, it is best to simply be patient.We do not really have any common Christian friends.He was quite dismissive of my choice to become a Catholic. He was happy when I was confirmed but I know he has issues with Catholicism. I just want him to see the beauty of the faith, but I have issues his take on Christianity. His social life revolves around the Mega Church and I feel that the his Church is centered on the Pastor rather than Christ!
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I’m reminded of this from Acts 5:
38 So in the present case, I tell you, keep away from these men and let them alone; because if this plan or this undertaking is of human origin, it will fail; 39 but if it is of God, you will not be able to overthrow them - in that case you may even be found fighting against God!"
Of course I don’t mean for you to keep away from your friend, but rather to not be to judgmental of his faith - his “take on Christianity”. Instead, share between you what is good. Share what you find beautiful in the faith even if he is dismissive of it - but (and this can be hard) do NOT be dismissive of what he finds beautiful in his faith.
There may come a time when he begins to become disillusioned with where he is. This can be particularly true if his faith is actually more “pastor” centered than he realizes. When this happens, you will be there to help. The one true friend who has supported him in every endeavor to grow closer to God. Then the strength of your faith, and the firm foundation that is the Catholic Church just might be enough to draw him home.
Peace
James