Maranatha:
Thanks but I’m not sure this argument is good enough for the person I’m talking with. They will then come back and say that Christianity is no better then other religions if it is not the home of perfection. Why isn’t Christ’s teaching perfect? Why does he exclude half of all his children?
So I guess it is up to man what constitutes perfection. No, perfection is God’s domain. God created the male priesthood, (which is more inclusive than the priesthood of the Mosaic Covenant, by the way) and if people would only stop criticizing and instead surrender their will to that of God, then they would begin to see the wisdom of His design.
God, in His wisdom, created roles for people in His Creation, and in His Church. No role is greater in His eyes than any other role. Men cannot bear children or naturally feed them, yet women can. Does this make men inferior, or mean that God’s creation is somehow imperfect? No! I am a man, but my role is being a father to my family, not a parish. Does that mean I have any less dignity in living my role than a priest? No!
If only people would stop thinking about what
they want, and worry more about what
God wants, maybe this false impression of inequality would go away.
Maybe telling something like this to your friend would help:
The ultimate reason the Church does not allow women to become priests is because the Church does not believe it has the authority to make that decision. The Church views the priesthood as something created by Christ just as He wanted it: with only male priests, among many other things. Since Jesus Himself did it that way, the Church honestly believes it
does not have the authority to change it. It would be like the Church suddenly deciding that baptism should be done with sand instead of water. “Why does it matter?” you ask? It matters because that it the way Jesus did it, and we strive to be like Him. The Church, not even the Pope, can change something that Jesus Himself started.
Even if your friend does not agree with the practice, maybe he/she can understand and respect that the Church, despite any public pressure to do otherwise, will not take action that it does not believe it has the authority to rightfully do. It has nothing to do with subjugating or marginalizing women; it has everything to do with practicing complete obedience to Christ.
Peace,
javelin