My parents sent my siblings and I to Catholic school. They often told us “how lucky we were” etc. and let us knw just how horrible they thought the pubic schools were. My husband and I have chosen to sent our kids to public school. My family has been horrible about it. My mom told me that she “did things right” with her kids. My brother, in front of my kids even, will mock public schools and tell his kids if they don’t behave he will make them go to public school. They also often say how much “better” the Catholic schools are. My sister told me that “all public school kids are the same”.