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Quicksilver264
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Its been a while since I was even on here, but the short story is that my wife and I did end up divorcing. She was dead-set on ending the Marriage, and despite using a two-year waiting period to try to save the marriage, it ended anyway.
During the “waiting period”, she met another guy and dated him for almost the entire time. The divorce was final about 8 months ago. Since she filed for divorce, I ended up getting a fantastic new job, got two big promotions in 2 years, and was able to keep the house on my own.
I guess it was 6 months ago when things hot rock bottom for her. What I know is based on third-party information, but the guy she was with left her, she crashed her brand new car with no collision coverage, and her financial situation deteriorated almost to the point of bankruptcy.
She apparently didn’t have a good divorce lawyer because they never filed for discovery regarding my income at the time of settlement. So, 2 months later, she tried for a divorce modification when she learned of my earning potential. While she was unsuccessful, I was forced to provide full financial disclosure to the Court and her.
The magically and mysteriously, all of the sudden she decided she wanted to “reconcile”, and that civil divorce didn’t mean we weren’t still Married. I told her to go pound sand and that was the last I heard from her.
In the end, she will have most likely have successfully committed suicide. As I write this, she is essentially brain dead after overdosing on a prescription sleeping pills. I have become the target of quite a lot of hate and resentment from her family and friends, blaming her situation on me for not wanting to reconcile. There is even some strong resentment at me from our Church.
Her brother even Facebook messaged me that their family would see to it that I was never able to Marry in the Church again because I was “directly responsible” for her dying.
While I understand their anger and hurt, I don’t see the connection between her own choices to take this entire path, and my refusal to take back a woman that could not be serious about anything but money.
During the “waiting period”, she met another guy and dated him for almost the entire time. The divorce was final about 8 months ago. Since she filed for divorce, I ended up getting a fantastic new job, got two big promotions in 2 years, and was able to keep the house on my own.
I guess it was 6 months ago when things hot rock bottom for her. What I know is based on third-party information, but the guy she was with left her, she crashed her brand new car with no collision coverage, and her financial situation deteriorated almost to the point of bankruptcy.
She apparently didn’t have a good divorce lawyer because they never filed for discovery regarding my income at the time of settlement. So, 2 months later, she tried for a divorce modification when she learned of my earning potential. While she was unsuccessful, I was forced to provide full financial disclosure to the Court and her.
The magically and mysteriously, all of the sudden she decided she wanted to “reconcile”, and that civil divorce didn’t mean we weren’t still Married. I told her to go pound sand and that was the last I heard from her.
In the end, she will have most likely have successfully committed suicide. As I write this, she is essentially brain dead after overdosing on a prescription sleeping pills. I have become the target of quite a lot of hate and resentment from her family and friends, blaming her situation on me for not wanting to reconcile. There is even some strong resentment at me from our Church.
Her brother even Facebook messaged me that their family would see to it that I was never able to Marry in the Church again because I was “directly responsible” for her dying.
While I understand their anger and hurt, I don’t see the connection between her own choices to take this entire path, and my refusal to take back a woman that could not be serious about anything but money.
