Hi, AndyF,
I do not think i skirted your questions - I really did my best to answer what you presented. The problem is, however, that they are like trying to discuss a ‘square circle’ - a total impossibility. If we do not exist - then we certainly would not be having a conversation. The heart of the matter is that we do exist - and it is from this stand point that we all must begin. We exist - and not in a vacuum - but in a multidimensional universe - created out of nothing by God, Who then set everthing in motion and into the patterns we see today.
And, yes, there consequences for being part of God’s creation - even though we did not ask to be created, because God chose to bring us into existence - and in our case - to keep us in existence for these many years (I hit the big 65 this year!

). We were created in God’s image and with a free will. We have been given work to do to bring about God’s Will - keeping the Commandments God gave us is a good starting point, and then we move on to the Commnads given by Christ. Using our free will to obey God will be recognized by Him when He judges all of His servants. Freely choosing to ignore His Will, is to be recognized, also.
Talking out hypothetical nothingness (God choosing to not created a certain being) can not be discussed - because there is nothing there to discuss - not even potential. If we can talk about it, then it exists. For example, we could talk about possible x-ray patterns given off BEYOND THE RANGE of the space telescope Hubble. Because they are beyond the range, we have no data - but, someone could imagine what the x-ray pattern would look like! Now we have several possibilities - of something that may not even exist!!

And this is true bedause we have imagined the unknown by filling in the blanks from the known.
Most people can not really imagine our national debt (almost $65 trillion) and that is right here on earth!!! Try to imagine a Light Year of money! But, although these ideas are maddenly obscure - someone could get it. We can not imagine what has nothing to go on - and that is what ‘nothingness’ is all about. Now, let’s take a look at those questions you pose:
1/ hell becomes justified with the choice to exist.
2/ or, a celestial being of high order could volunteer to put his/it’s nature on hold, have the angelic beings hold his spot, be born into the human nature with a temporary soul, and actually struggle with maturing faith, endowed with typical not unusual graces, never knowing his true place. If he makes it without sin other than original, then hell is justified, otherwise choice to exist is the default. (No, Jesus had a kingly nature he was aware of).
I’m willing to go the toss of the coin, pretty good deal if you ask me.
Andy
A 1/ - There is no CHOICE to exist. You either exist or there is nothing else. By the same token, you did not choose your parents or time of your birth. But, make no mistake about it - there is a Hell, and your ticket there will be punched by the choices you freely make once you are given (without asking) existence.
A 2/ - I guess a celestial being can do anything your imagination tells him to do … but, that does not mean he can actually do it Truly, we may need to discuss the meaning of meaning before we proceed to this nonsense arrangement you are creating. There are definite realities - and either we accept them or we don’t - but, either way, this does not change the nature of the reality. A hot stove is hot and remains hot whether you touch it or not. Now, if you do not touch it, you can claim it is not hot - but, what kind of silly statement is that? If you chose to touch it you can claim it is not hot - and then wonder how you got the burn!

You can also chose not to touch it and believe it is hot because someone in authority told you it was hot.
For those who are in touch with reality on a regular basis - Christ, the 2nd Person of the Blessed Trinity and true man - came to earth as a babe, grew, and preached about the Love of God and His desire that men avoid sin - another reality that needs to be clearly identified. Those who believe Him AND do what He says will be with Him in Heaven. Those who fail in this matter will be without Him in Hell.
Your choice - but, the reality remains unchanged.
God bless