I am a brand new Catholic as of 9:45 this morning and I must admit the practice of giving blessings during Communion happens every week in my parish but I have yet to see an EMHC perform blessings.
Before my daughter made her first Communion, she and I would stay in our pew and make a spiritual communion. Since that time, however, I had to take her up to receive and I would end up getting a blessing from the Priest. When I attended weekday Masses by myself I would not go up for a blessing and remained in my pew. I am not disagreeing with any of the statements posted here just saying how it ended up working for us personally and since my daughter is extremely shy the option of having someone else take her up was not feasible, nor would she have gone up by herself for the same reason.
This is no longer an issue for us since I am now in full Communion with the Church, but it becomes confusing for some people when the Priest is encouraging people to come up for a blessing but in truth it is an unapproved practice…or so I understand it from what I have read.
Welcome home to the Church!
Unfortunately, this very bad and ilicit practice sprang up like a weed because some misguided person had the mistaken notion that somehow those who were not able to receive Holy Communion needed to have some sort of consolation act. What they (and those who support the practice) do not realize is that when the celebrant issues the invitation, “Behold, the Lamb of God, happy are those who are called to His Supper”, this invitation is extended to those who are in the proper state to receive Our Lord.
The language of the Church is very specific. The invitation is made to the properly disposed faithful to approach the altar and receive the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Jesus Christ. We are called to receive Someone, not something that will be imparted to everyone a few moments after Holy Communion. In fact, the blessing imparted at the end of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass is perhaps the most universal part of the liturgy because everyone, Catholic or not, can receive this.
The CDWDS has been rather frank in its observations, noting that this practice should not be employed. They gave five very specific reasons why it should not be done. It is not within the competency of the Bishop, based on the authoritative documents of the Church, to insert something into the rubrics. Yes, he has regulatory authority over the liturgies in his diocese, but, this power only goes so far. The only way that any change to the GIRM can be made is through the national conference of bishops. Even then, such a change must receive 2/3 affirmative vote of the Latin-rite bishops in order for Rome to have the final say in the matter.
Fr. David made some very valid points. Rome was very clear in what it said through the CDWDS. This is not a YouTube statement; rather, it is official word from the Congregation that has a protocol number and already appears in Notitiae. Perhaps for some, it may not seem proof enough.