**1. I’ve never been baptized. What are the rites I will go through? **
Rite of Acceptance – non Baptized (typically Parish)
or
Combined Rite – The Rite of Welcoming & Rite of Acceptance are both done at once (typically Parish)
Rite of Election – Unbaptized (typically Diocese or a Bishop visit to Parish)
or
The Combined Rite - The Rite of Welcoming & Rite of Acceptance are both done at once(typically Diocese or a Bishop visit to Parish)
The rites are not the keys, the sacraments are Baptism (1), (2)confirmation, (3) Eucharist, (4) (latter) Reconciliation, (5)marriage (to complex for here usually not a big issue unless divorces have occurred), Last rites (hopefully not needed at this time) (7) Holy Orders (not typical but possible of RCIA people)
**2. I’ve been baptized in another Christian community. What are the rites I will go through? **
Rite of Welcoming – Baptized (typically Parish)
or
Combined Rite – The Rite of Welcoming & Rite of Acceptance are both done at once (typically Parish)
Rite of Calling – Baptized (typically Diocese or a Bishop visit to Parish)
or
The Combined Rite - The Rite of Welcoming & Rite of Acceptance are both done at once(typically Diocese or a Bishop visit to Parish)
The sacraments are the same, if your baptism was in name of the father, son and holy spirit your baptism is accepted. Other Baptisms are not acknowledged.
3. I think I’ve been baptized but how can I prove it? (1) A baptismal record, (2) Letters signed by people claiming to have seen your Baptism, (3) conditional Baptism which is not proof but rectifies the condition
4. What is a conditional baptism? It is the we do not know so we Baptize with knowledge we maybe should not be baptizing. So we error to the safe side.
5. I was baptized Catholic but never received my First Communion or Confirmation. Do I need RCIA? Typical over 17 yes, under 17 often ccd
6. I was baptized Catholic and received my First Communion, but was never confirmed. Do I need RCIA? Typically yes, some times a confirmation class is offered as a better alternate.
**7. I already know a lot about the Catholic Church. Can I skip RCIA? **Yes but it is your Priest decision not yours.
**8. What is a dismissal? **The catechumens are sent from Mass to study before Mass is finished. **What happens during the dismissal? **Catechumens study with a teacher (Catechist)
9. Why are catechumens dismissed from Mass? It is tradition
10. Should candidates also be dismissed from Mass? No, but is a common practice
11. I’m a shy person. Do I need to stand in front of the assembly during the rites? It is not required but highly recommended
**12. I was divorced and am now remarried. Can I become Catholic? **Yes, you will need to go to the marriage tribunal, the parish has people to help you with this step.
13. How does an older child or teen prepare for baptism? Same as any other (?) dress nice and expect to get wet
14. What does a sponsor do? How do I find one? Sponsors are referred to in the Canon Law :
*[Baptism] SPONSORS
Can. 872 Insofar as possible, a person to be baptized is to be given a sponsor who assists an adult in Christian initiation or together with the parents presents an infant for baptism. A sponsor also helps the baptized person to lead a Christian life in keeping with baptism and to fulfill faithfully the obligations inherent in it.
Can. 873 There is to be only one male sponsor or one female sponsor or one of each.
Can. 874 §1. To be permitted to take on the function of sponsor a person must:
1/ be designated by the one to be baptized, by the parents or the person who takes their place, or in their absence by the pastor or minister and have the aptitude and intention of fulfilling this function;
2/ have completed the sixteenth year of age, unless the diocesan bishop has established another age, or the pastor or minister has granted an exception for a just cause;
3/ be a Catholic who has been confirmed and has already received the most holy sacrament of the Eucharist and who leads a life of faith in keeping with the function to be taken on;
4/ not be bound by any canonical penalty legitimately imposed or declared;
5/ not be the father or mother of the one to be baptized.
§2. A baptized person who belongs to a non-Catholic ecclesial community is not to participate except together with a Catholic sponsor and then only as a witness of the baptism.
[confirmation] Can. 892 Insofar as possible, there is to be a sponsor for the person to be confirmed; the sponsor is to take care that the confirmed person behaves as a true witness of Christ and faithfully fulfills the obligations inherent in this sacrament.
Can. 893 §1. To perform the function of sponsor, a person must fulfill the conditions mentioned in ⇒ can. 874.
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§2. It is desirable to choose as sponsor the one who undertook the same function in baptism.*
Catholic Uncles, Aunts, friends of the family are common. The parish can help if you have no qualified friends or family
15. What do I do if I’m not satisfied with my catechetical sessions? Same as when you do not care for the Priest – be a good catholic
Hope that helps
some references
vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/_INDEX.HTM
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rite_of_Christian_Initiation_of_Adults