Feel terrible about my life

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kage_ar said:
Partially true, it is against man’s FALLEN nature.
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I don’t disagree with that. I believe our nature was corrupted as well.

However, I think what you and I will disagree with is that female nature is more designed to be with one man , than male nature was designed to be with one woman.

That doesn’t mean that women are more virtuous and men are more corrupted. It simply means that our sexual nature, like alot of nature, is very different.
 
Rascalking said:
I don’t disagree with that. I believe our nature was corrupted as well.

However, I think what you and I will disagree with is that female nature is more designed to be with one man , than male nature was designed to be with one woman.

That doesn’t mean that women are more virtuous and men are more corrupted. It simply means that our sexual nature, like alot of nature, is very different.
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It is Genesis.

**The LORD God said: “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable partner for him.” ****19 ****So the LORD God formed out of the ground various wild animals and various birds of the air, and he brought them to the man to see what he would call them; whatever the man called each of them would be its name. ****20 ****The man gave names to all the cattle, all the birds of the air, and all the wild animals; but none proved to be the suitable partner for the man. ****21 ****So the LORD God cast a deep sleep on the man, and while he was asleep, he took out one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. ****22 ****The LORD God then built up into a woman the rib that he had taken from the man. When he brought her to the man, ****23 5 the man said: “This one, at last, is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; This one shall be called ‘woman,’ for out of ‘her man’ this one has been taken.” ****24 6 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body. ****25 **The man and his wife were both naked, yet they felt no shame.

God did not design man for many women, but for one.

It is Satan and sin that make men want more than one woman.
 
kage_ar said:
It is Genesis.

**The LORD God said: “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable partner for him.” ****19 ****So the LORD God formed out of the ground various wild animals and various birds of the air, and he brought them to the man to see what he would call them; whatever the man called each of them would be its name. ****20 ****The man gave names to all the cattle, all the birds of the air, and all the wild animals; but none proved to be the suitable partner for the man. ****21 ****So the LORD God cast a deep sleep on the man, and while he was asleep, he took out one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. ****22 ****The LORD God then built up into a woman the rib that he had taken from the man. When he brought her to the man, ****23 5 the man said: “This one, at last, is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; This one shall be called ‘woman,’ for out of ‘her man’ this one has been taken.” ****24 6 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body. ****25 **The man and his wife were both naked, yet they felt no shame.

God did not design man for many women, but for one.

It is Satan and sin that make men want more than one woman.
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Um…we don’t disagree. We both think it’s our corrupted nature that makes men want multiple women.
 
Rascalking said:
Um…we don’t disagree. We both think it’s our corrupted nature that makes men want multiple women.
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It is sin, it is the fallen nature.

Our souls are created in the image of God.

After Baptism, we have put on Christ. We are not slaves to sin, unless we let ourselves be.
 
Phill9999 I am empathize your situation. I know it’s hard. I know what you are going through is very difficult and you are very confused but you know you’re in love and you know your g/f loves you back.
Someone suggested maybe you should take a break, a step back, to really see things clearly to focus on what you have to do. Honestly, it may or may not work. But just seek that guidance that comes from above and you’ll see clearly when it’s time.

I’m praying for you friend.
From all eternity, O Lord, You planned my very existence and my destiny. You wrapped me in Your love in baptism and gave me the Faith to lead me to an eternal life of happiness with You. You have showered me with Your graces and You have been always ready with Your mercy and forgiveness when I have fallen. Now I beg You for the light I so earnestly need that I may find the way of life in which lies the best fulfillment of Your will. Whatever state this may be, give me the grace necessary to embrace it with love of Your holy will, as devotedly as Your Blessed Mother did Your will. I offer myself to You now, trusting in Your wisdom and love to direct me in working out my salvation and in helping others to know and come close to You, so that I may find my reward in union with You for ever and ever. Amen.

Remember that you are God’s gift to this world.
 
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