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I have an elderly friend who didn’t care for the Bible until she found a child’s version at a Catholic store - and now she loves it! She says it explains things in ways other translations never could, and she’s actually able to understand it. If you’re willing to “become a little child” 😉 it might be very helpful if you could find editions of the catechism and the Bible for children.

Also, the “Baltimore catechism” referenced in an earlier post is much easier to understand than the CCC.
 
Go slowly. Read very small portions. Stop to look up any words you are unfamiliar with.

In time, your vocabulary will have improved, and you will be able to read more quickly and for longer periods of time.
Agree 100%.

Suggest reading the bible and catechism over a year. Take the time to read a little each day. See link here for a guide.. There’s beauty in taking in God’s Word a little at a time and reflecting on his words as you go through your day.
 
I second using the Baltimore Catechism. Each level gives a little more information than the previous level, but mostly incorporates the previous level’s words in a longer explanation.

I used the BCs with my homeschooled children and so studied them very carefully and thoroughly over the years as I was challenged by my children’s many questions! We all got a thorough understanding of the Church’s basic teachings this way.

The teachings of the Church are very intertwined, so this is a really good way to learn about them.
Where can I get the Baltimore Catechism for free? There are SO many version of it, so many different volumes - where can I find the Baltimore Catechism in one single place? Free?
 
I know you included the following questions just to give examples, but I’m going to respond to the first one in order to give a sample of the type of help you might receive here on the forum – at least from me if you make it clear you want every day language used.

I put things in parentheses and used bolding to highlight the words in the “Answer” that correspond to the words in my response that are in parentheses. I realize this can make the answer look lengthy and complicated. But, if once you’ve read the whole answer through, you go back and reread it, omitting all the parts in parentheses, hopefully the response should read easily.
In this sample, I retyped my response with the parentheses parts omitted to give you an example of how it reads without the parentheses (indented paragraphs).
Example:

Question 218 / 220 in Compendium: “What is the liturgy? / In what does the sacramental economy consist?”

Answer: "The** liturgy **is the celebration of the mystery of Christ and in particular his Paschal Mystery. Through the exercise of the **priestly office of Jesus Christ **the liturgy manifests in signs and brings about the sanctification of humankind.
In the Mass and the Sacraments (liturgy), we celebrate especially Jesus’ sacrifice on the Cross for our redemption (Paschal Mystery). In these liturgical rites (Mass and the Sacraments) Jesus is present as our high priest, offering His sacrifce and prayers to the Father on our behalf. (priestly office of Jesus Christ). He does this in and through things we can see, hear, touch, etc. (signs ; for example, priest, bread, wine, water, oil, words, …). When we participate in these rites, Jesus fills our souls with the graces He merited for us (brings about the sanctification of humankind).

Without the parts in parentheses:In the Mass and the Sacraments we celebrate especially Jesus’ sacrifice on the Cross for our redemption. In these liturgical rites Jesus is present as our high priest, offering His sacrifice and prayers to the Father on our behalf. He does this in and through things we can see, hear, touch, etc. When we participate in these rites, Jesus fills our souls with the graces He merited for us
The **public worship **which is due to God is offered by the Mystical BOdy of Christ, that is, by its **head **and by its members. The sacramental economy consists in the communication of the fruits of Christ’s redemption through the celebration of the sacraments of the Church, most especially that of the Eucharist, until he comes (1 Cor 11:26)."
WOW - how can I possible understand something like that - so complex.
When we gather together at Church to worship God in the Mass and Sacraments (public worship), our prayers are united to those of Our Lord (head) and to those of all who are united to Him, on earth and in heaven (members) - the entire Church, head and members (Mystical Body of Christ). When we participate in these forms of worship (Mass and Sacraments) God communicates His redeeming graces into our souls (communication of the fruits of Christ’s redemption).

Without the parts in parentheses:When we gather together at Church to worship God in the Mass and Sacraments, our prayers are united to those of Our Lord and to those of all who are united to Him, on earth and in heaven - the entire Church, head and members. When we participate in these forms of worship, God communicates His redeeming graces into our souls

“Sacramental Economy” refers to the method Jesus established of using the visible things and rites of the Mass and Sacraments to communicate to our souls the invisible graces He merited for us. Visible things to communicate invisible grace. Do you find the above answers understandable?
 
I have an elderly friend who didn’t care for the Bible until she found a child’s version at a Catholic store - and now she loves it! She says it explains things in ways other translations never could, and she’s actually able to understand it. If you’re willing to “become a little child” 😉 it might be very helpful if you could find editions of the catechism and the Bible for children.

Also, the “Baltimore catechism” referenced in an earlier post is much easier to understand than the CCC.
There is no way I am going to read a CHILDREN’s bible - I am an adult college student and graduated the valedictorian of my high school - I need to get serious about my faith , not read a children’s bible… how weird is that! ugh!!!
 
There is no way I am going to read a CHILDREN’s bible - I am an adult college student and graduated the valedictorian of my high school - I need to get serious about my faith , not read a children’s bible… how weird is that! ugh!!!
Dearest Son,

I’m sure the person meant no harm in suggesting a different version - a Children’s version.

People are offering to help you - a strange whom they know nothing about. So, it is not weird in the least bit. However, your attitude of “ugh!!!” is not the words of an adult thankful for a stranger taking the time to respond to your need.

You can look for the Baltimore Catechism at a thrift store or the library’s used book sale. You may find them in your parish library to borrow. You might ask a homeschool family in your parish if they have own them and if you can borrow them.
 
There is no way I am going to read a CHILDREN’s bible - I am an adult college student and graduated the valedictorian of my high school - I need to get serious about my faith , not read a children’s bible… how weird is that! ugh!!!
As it happens, I started off with a children’s version of almost everything when I returned to the Church, and I was not only a college *graduate, *I spent years working in the publishing field, so I am no slouch when it comes to vocabulary and grammar.

One important aspect of being a good Catholic is *humility. *Part of humility is admitting that you are where you are. You have already admitted that you don’t understand the current catechism, the compendium, or the Bible. Guess what? You *are *like a child in this because you are a *beginner. *

A good children’s Bible can be a wonderful way to start precisely because it is written for beginners–it takes the easiest parts of the Bible, and puts it into words which are easily understood.

If I wanted to find out more about physics, for example ( and if you knew me, you would know I am totally ignorant about these things!) I would definitely consider a good book for children like What Makes Things Work. It would be written with the purpose of interesting the reader, and have lots of explanatory illustrations, and probably explain the specialized words used rather than assume I know the meaning of antinode or joule.

And since this is precisely the problem you described yourself as having, it seems like a very helpful suggestion.
 
Links to each of the 1800s volumes can be found in Wikipedia, in the entry for the Baltimore Catechism, under External Links. Click on the titles to get to the Gutenberg Project page for the download links.

Volume 4 has all the questions and answers along with the explanations. Volume 3 has all the questions and answers and is meant for older Catholics; Volume 2 for Confirmation prep; Volume 1 for later elementary students.

If you buy any, I like the ones by Fr Bennet best. They look like this, and I second the idea of keeping an eye open for them used or borrrowing them.

There used to be a better set online, but I can no longer find it… hopefully in between the volumes and the teacher’s edition (No. 4), you will be able to learn a lot about your Faith.
 
There is no way I am going to read a CHILDREN’s bible - I am an adult college student and graduated the valedictorian of my high school - I need to get serious about my faith , not read a children’s bible… how weird is that! ugh!!!
I am also a college graduate who graduated with a 4.0 GPA, am a scientist and therefore expected to use big scientific words…yet I used a simpler translation of the New Testament when starting out. I started reading the whole NT with the Contemporary English Version: Catholic Edition.

The CEV is a very dynamic equivalent translation almost a paraphrase (but it is still a separate translation). As someone who is trying to self-teach NT Greek, I find that I would probably try to do a combination of formal and dynamic equivalence if I were translating my own Bible verses from the NT. Bible translation is its own “science” and you need to find the translation that is best for you. If you’re struggling with the words you are reading, you should probably pick another translation.

I know I’ll get blasted on here for probably suggesting dynamic equivalent translations (“sense-for-sense” translations) to you, but these I highly recommend (and all have a Nihil Obstat/Imprimatur meaning they are free from moral/doctrinal error) for the sake they are easy to understand:

-The Catholic Living Bible
-Contemporary English Version New Testament with Imprimatur
-Good News Translation with Deuterocanonicals and Imprimatur

I do not recommend the above for serious Bible study but they are excellent for starting your first read through the Bible or if you’re having trouble understanding the meaning of a verse. As lacking as the CEV may be it is still one of my favorite translations probably because it was the first translation I used to begin reading the Bible.
 
There is no way I am going to read a CHILDREN’s bible - I am an adult college student and graduated the valedictorian of my high school - I need to get serious about my faith , not read a children’s bible… how weird is that! ugh!!!
You don’t have to look at the illustrations. 😃
 
It’s great to hear you are desiring to get into your Bible and learn about Jesus this way.

I don’t want to add a bunch of complicated junk to the pile, just two simple and important suggestions:
  1. PRAY, pray, then pray more. No, it’s not a cop-out! I can’t tell you how many people I’ve spoken to who said things like, “I just didn’t get it and didn’t like reading a Bible, until I started to have a relationship with Jesus.” Prayer is the first step. Ask Jesus to help you- tell him, in your own words, that you want to know him better and get into God’s Word. He will answer your prayer. Ask him to come into your heart and open your eyes to the gospels. I would start with the gospel of John.
  2. I second the suggestion of getting a translation that you might enjoy more. The Good News Bible is good to get started with. You can find paperbacks for very little cash. Also, you might want to share your desire with a priest, maybe the next time you go to confession, or after mass. He will be happy to help you get started in reading scripture.
Based on your screen name, I assume you pray the rosary? Ask Mary to help you know Jesus.

I will pray for you too!
 
There is no way I am going to read a CHILDREN’s bible - I am an adult college student and graduated the valedictorian of my high school - I need to get serious about my faith , not read a children’s bible… how weird is that! ugh!!!
My previous suggestion was to read the Catechism and Bible in a year following the link that I gave you. I recommend this all the more if you are wanting to get serious about your faith. Remember, faith is a journey…perseverence counts.

Other thoughts that can help you cover a lot of ground:
  • Suggest also buying “Catholicism for Dummies” and the “Catholic Mass for Dummies”. Both are great books that cover the faith and both are written by two Catholic Priests. Understand it is the “Dummy Series” and that you are not a dummy. I know a number of people who have enjoyed reading them.
  • Read through the tracts on Catholic.com
  • Join a bible study at Church
Pork
 
Another vote here for the Good News Bible, with Deuterocanonical. 👍
 
Example:

Matthew 20: 13-16: “Friend I am doing you no wrong: did you not agree with me for a denarius? Take what belongs to you, and go, I choose to give to this last as I give to you. Am i not allowed to do what I chose with what bhelongs to me? Or do you begrudge my generosity? So that last will be first and the first last.”

There are so many unclear sentences and passage within the bible, including the gospels, that I don’t understand.
Try the New Living Translation Bible. I know it’s not a Catholic Bible, but just try reading the Gospels using that translation. I guarantee you will be able to understand it perfectly. Try reading it online if you don’t want to buy it.

Matthew 20: 13-16: “Friend I am doing you no wrong: did you not agree with me for a denarius? Take what belongs to you, and go, I choose to give to this last as I give to you. Am i not allowed to do what I chose with what bhelongs to me? Or do you begrudge my generosity? So that last will be first and the first last.”

Here is the NLT translation:
‘Friend, I haven’t been unfair! Didn’t you agree to work all day for the usual wage? 14Take your money and go. I wanted to pay this last worker the same as you. 15Is it against the law for me to do what I want with my money? Should you be jealous because I am kind to others?’
16“So those who are last now will be first then, and those who are first will be last.”
 
If you want to understand the big picture of the bible much easier then I recommend a good bible study like the Great Adventure. There might even be a bible study group in your area starting in September.

biblestudyforcatholics.com/
 
Example:

Matthew 20: 13-16: “Friend I am doing you no wrong: did you not agree with me for a denarius? Take what belongs to you, and go, I choose to give to this last as I give to you. Am i not allowed to do what I chose with what bhelongs to me? Or do you begrudge my generosity? So that last will be first and the first last.”

There are so many unclear sentences and passage within the bible, including the gospels, that I don’t understand.
This story that Jesus is telling is aimed at faithful, long-time Christians. It is teaching that there will be those who convert to Christ later in life, who have not labored to perform the works of Christ all their lives. And Jesus will save these people as well as the life-long Christian. And He is telling the life-long Christian not to complain that these later converts are being saved, even though they have not worked as long.

He is telling the long-time Christians to not begrudge or be angry that He will save them. They are being “paid” exactly as Christ has promised He would, that He will save them. But if He wants to save late converts, that is His prerogative, as He is King of everything, and Has the right to save whoever He chooses to.
 
I am a life-long Catholic, and I am starting to read the Bible, beginning with the Four Gospels and the rest of the New Testament.

I am also starting to read the Catechism.

I am feeling frustrated and overwhelmed because there are so many passages and complex words that I don’t understand. What do I do? How do I understand a difficult passage?
listen

God bless
 
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