This is an interesting issue. While it is true that:
MrS:
The use of female servers began as an abuse… period.;
After some time, bishops decided to make it a norm, and it is only that today.
They are acceptable today (as even the late bishop of Rome said), but are still unnecessary, and will be eliminated by Benedict XVI.
It does NOT follow that a “close reading” of B16’s homily by Fr. Fessio indicates anything other
than Fr. Fessio’s desire to halt the use of female altar servers.
Our Holy Father has much bigger fish to fry than this.
When the use of girl altar servers was an abuse I fought against it, I didn’t like it, and I tried to avoid it.
But as the adage goes, “Rome has spoken, it is settled.” Our late great holy father among the saints, John Paul II allowed the use of girl altar servers. If your bishop has also allowed it, than it’s a done deal, folks. Why argue with a decided question?
I happen to train the altar servers in my own parish, and I can honestly tell you that the girl altar servers (as a group) are more attentive, follow directions better, and are more mature than their male counterparts. I don’t have a problem with either boys or girls as altar servers - just glad that these young people have an opportunity to serve our Lord at the Eucharist.
One theory that is often thrown around in this discussion is the fact that a great majority of priests today were once altar boys. While that is true, a great majority of readers, extraordinary ministers of Holy Communion are as well. I myself am a cleric, a Roman Catholic deacon, and I was an altar boy, too.
But of course, there were not girl altar servers 20 and 30 and 40 years ago, which is the time frame you would need to look at to see if there is a correlation between them.
So, you might need to look at this issue again in 10, 20 & 30 years and see if those altar girls grew up to be Sisters, readers, EMHCs, choir members, whatever. Chances are there will probably be a correlation there as well.
It probably boils down to this, those involved with the Church when they were young people are much more likely to be involved with the Church (
and consequently be better stewards) when they are adults.
Encouraging more priestly vocations is probably mostly tied (in the US) to American families
being less materialistic and selfish. And quit trying to vicariously re-live your own childhood by getting your kids involved in every sort of sport and extra-curricular activity.
Take the time you would have spent at soccer or baseball or football or basketball practice each week, for example, and go with your children to the nursing home or food pantry and volunteer.
Instead of your daughter playing volleyball, softball, tennis, track & field and dance, cheer, etc. Replace one (or more) of them with weekly visits to the homebound or those in the hospital.
Here’s another way to look at it:
- Your son is WAY more likely to become a priest or brother than he is to become the next Tiger Woods or Brett Favre.
- Your daughter is WAY more likely to become a Sister than Chris Evert or Peggy Fleming.
And by the way, we need Sisters, Brothers & Priests
way more than we need another athlete.
In the service of Him who walked among us,