Why, cause they skew numbers not your way?
No, because the vast majority of Catholics who are not active or making any effort to live the Gospel are not representative of what the Church’s position should, or will be. Its like a political poll that includes everyone instead of likely voters; or a national poll when the issue at hand is a state primary. The numbers are meaningless. It they are Christmas and Easter Catholics or haven’t been to Mass in years, who exactly do they really represent? Frankly, I am not sure but I know that it isn’t the Church. Show me a bunch of former Catholics who are holding onto a lack of females priests as the reason for their staying away from the faith, and perhaps I will buy in.
I watched an interview on EWTN last week with a Canadian Catholic who talked about all of the people who call themselves Catholic who object to certain parts of Church teaching. His statement was that those people should simply stop calling themselves Catholic because in truth they have not been for some time. I agree with this totally. Being Catholic is not an issue of heredity or nationality, its the explicit agreement to a creed of beliefs that we profess when we come into the faith and every week at the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, even when those beliefs are hard.
At some point we have to get beyond the idea that speaking with charity means being nice and politically correct. Part of being charitable is speaking hard truths to those who need to hear them and in doing so, risk alienating them or coming across in the wrong way. Telling people falsehoods in order to spare their feelings is not charitable, it is sin, like any other lie.
There is a different between sinning because you reject truth, and sinning because you are weak and fallen, but are really trying to live what the Church teaches. The former are not Catholic, while the latter are. One only has to look to the Gospel to see this. Our Blessed Lord did not back off when His apostles told Him that his teachings were hard. He simply asked if they were leaving like everyone else. He was more concerned with professing the truth of the Gospel than in smoothing over hurt feelings or being politically correct. The Church, though made up of sinners, is called to do no less.
No one is holding a gun to anyone’s head and forcing them to submit to Christ’s yoke. This is often the cry of those who disagree with Church teaching on a particular topic “they are taking away our freedoms”… No they aren’t. Those people do not know what freedom is. Freedom is a gift from God but it comes with a price of becoming his servant. Only in trying to live the Gospel in their own lives, does one get to experience the freedom to be the person that God is calling us to be.
Being a disciple of Christ is a free choice which everyone can take or leave as they like. Either you believe that the Catholic Church is the Church Christ himself founded and that she contains the truth of salvation, or you do not. If you don’t, then you aren’t Catholic. One may think they are all they like, but they aren’t. These women think they are priests, they aren’t. People who show up on Christmas and Easter or to baptize their kids think they are Catholic, they aren’t. People who claim to be Catholic but dissent with infallibly defined Church teaching, are not Catholic regardless of what they may wish to think. When I was 23, I thought I was God’s gift to women, i’m not.