Financial sin question

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Kathrin said:
Maybe he is just confused himself. Because maybe he ha sinner difficulties he doesn’t know how to handle?
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He’s definitely an atheist and always has been 😦 he just doesn’t seem to be making much progress in coping better with everything. I’m interested to see what happens when I move out (hopefully) for university in September.
 
I just realized I made a typo in my last post.

“Ha sinner difficulties”: I didn’t mean anything about “sinner”. I meant to write: “Has inner difficulties” 😉
 
Kathrin said:
I just realized I made a typo in my last post.

“Ha sinner difficulties”: I didn’t mean anything about “sinner”. I meant to write: “Has inner difficulties” 😉
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ohhhhh, I should have seen that :doh2:🙂

A couple of days he told us about we could get free wi-fi. It sort of seems like he just gets frustrated when he says something and a parent doesn’t understand then ends up with a slight stutter which I can sympathise with. In the last couple of years he has put the effort in to get us a nice present for birthdays/Christmas (apart from he didn’t get mum anything for mother’s day this year) other than these two examples he is completely disinterested.

Thankyou.
 
Maybe if it is shown to him how much it is appreciated when he shows interest, he will learn that this is the way to peace…?

I really don’t know the situation so I hope I don’t say something wrong. But maybe focussing on the positive, even if they are small signs… you know, like when a tree that has not born fruit shows even the tiniest beginning of a bud… instead of focussing on all th ebare branches around it… maybe that would put the whole situation in a different light and hten also make HIM feel different and lead to change of perception in both sides?
 
Kathrin said:
Maybe if it is shown to him how much it is appreciated when he shows interest, he will learn that this is the way to peace…?

I really don’t know the situation so I hope I don’t say something wrong. But maybe focussing on the positive, even if they are small signs… you know, like when a tree that has not born fruit shows even the tiniest beginning of a bud… instead of focussing on all th ebare branches around it… maybe that would put the whole situation in a different light and hten also make HIM feel different and lead to change of perception in both sides?
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That does make sense, he doesn’t seem interested in too much thanking from my mum though.

No, it’s fine it’s really nice of you:)
I feel very caught up in everything that I don’t want to try take on another ‘project’. it will be okay in the end though, I think:)
 
You need not see it as a project you have to take on.
Just try to act in kindness, let the Holy Spirit guide you, focus on the positive, avoid ever becoming judgmental, don’t lose hope… this is something for generally in life :).

God bless you!

Kathrin
 
Kathrin said:
You need not see it as a project you have to take on.
Just try to act in kindness, let the Holy Spirit guide you, focus on the positive, avoid ever becoming judgmental, don’t lose hope… this is something for generally in life :).

God bless you!

Kathrin
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Thankyou.:)🙂
 
I don’t know what the “God Delusion” is… strange name??🤷

Hmmmm… WELLL kind of weird that he sent you alcoholic drinks? but then I do not know him, nor do I remember if I ever knew how old you are… :hmmm: But probably you CAN see it as a sign of affection? His way of wanting to make you happy?🤷
 
Kathrin said:
I don’t know what the “God Delusion” is… strange name??🤷

Hmmmm… WELLL kind of weird that he sent you alcoholic drinks? but then I do not know him, nor do I remember if I ever knew how old you are… :hmmm: But probably you CAN see it as a sign of affection? His way of wanting to make you happy?🤷
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Yeah, I think he is saying that he doesn’t really care, at least I have tried though I guess:shrug: I was 18 a few weeks ago:) Those are good things to think 😉 thankyou.
 
happy belated birthday!!!🍿:juggle::juggle: :tiphat:
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