Margaret, God has given us the gift of free will. God is all-powerful, but He intends us to freely choose His love and goodness, and to willingly welcome His desire for us to share in His life in this world and for eternity.
He doesn’t force us or program us.
For the moment, just look at your own daily choices.
God isn’t forcing anyone to wear particular shoes, or pick particular clothes to wear, or any number of daily practical choices, or to walk down this street, not the other route,
or to eat a healthy meal choice or not.
God isn’t saying which store to go in or what car to buy…and so on,
even from a practical viewpoint we have free will.
Your practical good sense and free will decides those things., and you may use certain criteria, but no one’s forcing you.
We have free will, we are not an programmed automatons.
We have to bear the consequences of our choices, but that also makes sense from the point of view of free choices.
If you choose to go walking in the rain without an umbrella, you get wet…
if you break the law and are caught you can go to jail, and so on, the same in spiritual matters.
If we refuse to love God and to give practical kindness to others, or small ways, or greater ways, we are choosing the consequences, ourselves.
Predictable consequences to free choices
Below, some links to Catholic sources regarding the Holy Spirit’s teaching regarding human free will.
God bless you
http://www.vatican.va/archive/ccc_css/archive/catechism/p3s1c1a3.htm4
http://www.vatican.va/archive/ccc_css/archive/catechism/p3s1c1a4.htm2
http://www.vatican.va/archive/hist_...-ii_decl_19651207_dignitatis-humanae_en.html2
http://www.vatican.va/archive/ccc_css/archive/catechism/p3s1c1a3.htm4
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/06259a.htm2
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/04756c.htm