I think the scenario would depend upon whether the person had been validly baptized before entering RCIA. The person has been validly baptized, they’re not sure they’ve been validly baptized, or they have not been validly baptized. I am assuming that all of the sacraments are done within a short period of time at the Mass when the person enters the Church.
- The person has been validly baptized. Here I assuming that the person was baptized some time ago, perhaps years or even when they were a child. In this case, I would think that they should go to confession first. This is to help them be free of any mortal sins they may have committed. To take another sacrament while in the state of mortal sin would be a sacrilege and the graces that pertain to the other sacrament would not be given to the person until they had confessed and had the mortal sin removed.
- If the person is unsure whether they had been validly baptized, then they should be baptized (conditionally) AND make a first confession. (I know of one case where this happened.) If the person has NOT been previously baptized, then the conditional baptism will remedy that. If they HAVE been baptized, then the first confession will take care of all of their sins since they were baptized. Then the order of the other two sacraments does not much matter.
- The person has not been validly baptized: if the person will be baptized at the time they will enter the Church, then the order of the following sacraments is not so important. This is because the sacrament of baptism forgives Original Sin and any personal sins that the person has committed. If this is done during the Mass, then the person will be sin free and can receive the other sacraments. In fact, if the baptism is done during the Mass when they enter the Church, then First confession can be delayed for weeks afterwards, since they will not have had time to commit any personal sins.
I offer the below from the Code of Canon Law (
http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P39.HTM):
Can. 914 It is primarily the duty of parents and those who take the place of parents, as well as the duty of pastors, to take care that children who have reached the use of reason are prepared properly and, after they have made
sacramental confession, are refreshed with this divine food as soon as possible.
Can. 916 A person who is conscious of
grave sin is not to celebrate Mass or receive the body of the Lord without previous
sacramental confession unless there is a grave reason and there is no opportunity to confess; in this case the person is to remember the obligation to make an act of perfect contrition which includes the resolution of confessing as soon as possible.
While neither of these specifically states that adults should confess unless they have “grave sin”, for someone who is coming into the Church, I think it would be prudent to confess before hand, especially if this was done years ago or as an infant.
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