First Confession---BEFORE First Holy Communion or in the 4th grade?

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Kielbasi:
Traditionally, children got their first confession before their first communion. In more recent years, some parishes and dioceses have reversed the order, although the Vatican hasn’t given the new protocol its o.k. yet.

The Eastern rite churches have given communion before confession for a very long time, however.
The Vatican allowed the experiment in the late 70’s and within a few years in the early 80’s put an end to it requiring all diocese to stop and return to the traditional order. It’s not something new that is just now being proposed.
 
Br. Rich SFO:
The Vatican allowed the experiment in the late 70’s and within a few years in the early 80’s put an end to it requiring all diocese to stop and return to the traditional order. It’s not something new that is just now being proposed.
That is correct. What you mention above is exactly as I remember it happening when my children were young.
 
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Kielbasi:
Traditionally, children got their first confession before their first communion. In more recent years, some parishes and dioceses have reversed the order, although the Vatican hasn’t given the new protocol its o.k. yet.

The Eastern rite churches have given communion before confession for a very long time, however.
You’re wrong.

Your posting is a prime example of passing on misinformation and that can really take a toll on the faithful.

The Church formally ended the experimentation of having one’s first confession follow their first holy communion. This action was taken by the Church in 1973 in plain language:

SANCTUS PONTIFEX
Confession Before First Communion
Sacred Congregations of the Sacraments and for the Clergy

ewtn.com/library/CURIA/CCLSANCT.HTM

If any dioceses/parishes have taken it upon themselves to reverse the order, they do so in dissent of what the Church directs on this matter.
 
Br. Rich SFO:
The Vatican allowed the experiment in the late 70’s and within a few years in the early 80’s put an end to it requiring all diocese to stop and return to the traditional order. It’s not something new that is just now being proposed.
The Holy See had formally stopped the practice by 1973.

SANCTUS PONTIFEX
Confession Before First Communion
Sacred Congregations of the Sacraments and for the Clergy

ewtn.com/library/CURIA/CCLSANCT.HTM
 
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AltarMan:
You’re wrong.

Your posting is a prime example of passing on misinformation and that can really take a toll on the faithful.

The Church formally ended the experimentation of having one’s first confession follow their first holy communion. This action was taken by the Church in 1973 in plain language:

SANCTUS PONTIFEX
Confession Before First Communion
Sacred Congregations of the Sacraments and for the Clergy

ewtn.com/library/CURIA/CCLSANCT.HTM

If any dioceses/parishes have taken it upon themselves to reverse the order, they do so in dissent of what the Church directs on this matter.
Since the Eastern Churches give infants the Eucharist at the time of Baptism and Chrismation, they DO administer Holy Communion before Confession.

Hmm. 'Nother thread: how do they introduce their age-of-reason kids to the Sacrament of Confession?
 
In 1971 (1st grade) I made my First Communion. First Confession came in 3rd grade (1973). They didn’t want children to have a “negative” impression of the Catholic church. Puh-leeze.

Fortunately, sanity has returned. My kids received both sacraments in 2nd grade - First Confession a few weeks before First Communion.
 
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AltarMan:
The Holy See had formally stopped the practice by 1973.

SANCTUS PONTIFEX
Confession Before First Communion
Sacred Congregations of the Sacraments and for the Clergy

ewtn.com/library/CURIA/CCLSANCT.HTM
It is a little document, I have a copy I just cannot find it. Anyway maybe then I should have said late 60’s stopped by the early 70’s I stand corrected.
 
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Giannawannabe:
I . I explained what the Catechism says on the matter, and she stared at me with a blank expression on her face. She said she “hates” going to Confession and hasn’t been in years, so how can she tell little kids that they have to go? Any thoughts would be appreciated…
I think you have put your finger on the reason teaching on Penance and actual practice has been watered down in recent years – as well as sacramental preparation in general and teaching on the Eucharist. Those doing the teaching do not themselves know Catholic teaching, and if they do have rejected it. An adult Catholic who is not going to confession regularly either is lazy or fooling themselves, or does not understand the purpose and power of this sacrament.

There is no such thing as an adult in full possession of their reason and will who is not sinning and not in need of repentance and confession. An adult who thinks otherwise usually has some long-standing sin or sinful habit he is not willing to acknowledge or let go of, so has stopped going to confession or even thinking about his actions as sinful. Sady, at least in my generation, that habitual sin is usually linked in someway to disobedience regarding Church laws on marriage and artificial contraception.

In Canon Law a child MUST have the opportunity for confession before first communion, to deny him this right is one of the worst of current liturgical abuses: denial of the sacraments. A child who has reached catechetical age is by definition capable of understanding right and wrong, judging his own actions, committing deliberate sin, and repenting of it.
 
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mercygate:
Since the Eastern Churches give infants the Eucharist at the time of Baptism and Chrismation, they DO administer Holy Communion before Confession.

Hmm. 'Nother thread: how do they introduce their age-of-reason kids to the Sacrament of Confession?
Can you justify an “age of reason”. The practice of separating the three initiatory sacraments is a late invention of the Latin Church. Sort of Protestant, if one asks. When one sins they go to confession. Specifically, we teach children the meaning of confession at second grade. Do we really know if they actually understand fully what this means? I don’t know.

CDL
 
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mercygate:
Since the Eastern Churches give infants the Eucharist at the time of Baptism and Chrismation, they DO administer Holy Communion before Confession.

Hmm. 'Nother thread: how do they introduce their age-of-reason kids to the Sacrament of Confession?
The original poster was suggesting that this practice was also permitted in the Latin Rite and that is wrong. Terribly wrong.
 
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AltarMan:
The original poster was suggesting that this practice was also permitted in the Latin Rite and that is wrong. Terribly wrong.
I believe you are mistaken. The three initiatory sacraments were commonly offered to infants by the entire Church. I’ll get the references when I’ve time. The changes, if memory served, came about since the Enlightenment as a way to improve the intellectual understanding of the faith by stretching education out. The West in particular felt a need to better go toe to toe with the likes of DeCartes et al.

CDL
 
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GregoryPalamas:
Can you justify an “age of reason”. The practice of separating the three initiatory sacraments is a late invention of the Latin Church. Sort of Protestant, if one asks. When one sins they go to confession. Specifically, we teach children the meaning of confession at second grade. Do we really know if they actually understand fully what this means? I don’t know.

CDL
Good arguments can be made for the practice of the West, just as other good arguments can be made for the Eastern use. Since you say that the East introduces kids to confession at roughly the same age as we do in the West, it would seem that some of the same thinking has gone into figuring out when they are able responsibly to discern right from wrong. The ability to understand right from wrong is what is meant by the term “age of reason” – not the Age of Enlightenment. I apologize for any confusion I may have introduced.

Does anybody ever understand fully what it means?
 
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asquared:
I think you have put your finger on the reason teaching on Penance and actual practice has been watered down in recent years – as well as sacramental preparation in general and teaching on the Eucharist. Those doing the teaching do not themselves know Catholic teaching, and if they do have rejected it.
. An adult who thinks otherwise usually has some long-standing sin or sinful habit he is not willing to acknowledge or let go of, so has stopped going to confession or even thinking about his actions as sinful. Sady, at least in my generation, that habitual sin is usually linked in someway to disobedience regarding Church laws on marriage and artificial contraception.

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I think YOU hit the nail on the head here!!! I know my friend also has issues with the Church’s teaching on artificial contraception, and other Church laws such as mandatory Mass attendance on Sundays/Holy Days of Obligation. I think she teaches because her kids attend, and she feels obligated to do so. To be fair, she really is poorly catechized, and simply has not gotten the urge to learn more—maybe that’s why I keep getting the urge to talk to her about these issues???:eek:
I appreciate all of the information given from all of you–thanks.
 
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GregoryPalamas:
I believe you are mistaken. The three initiatory sacraments were commonly offered to infants by the entire Church. I’ll get the references when I’ve time. The changes, if memory served, came about since the Enlightenment as a way to improve the intellectual understanding of the faith by stretching education out. The West in particular felt a need to better go toe to toe with the likes of DeCartes et al.

CDL
No, it is you that is confused. In the Latin Rite of the Church, there is a “schedule” of sorts for baptism, first confession, first communion and confirmation. This differs from the Eastern Catholic chuches, like it or not, but that’s the way it is – that’s what the Church directs for the latin Rite.

To go and suggest that within the Latin Rite it is OK to disregard what the Church directs, and to withhold the sacrament of confession is wrong - even with the historical president you mention. This is not a discussion about what is “better” – the Western or Eastern method. It’s a discussion of following what the Church directs.

It’s dissent and it was presented here by at least one person as something that dioceses and parishes are doing and is therefore ipso facto OK, even though the “protocol” has not yet been forthcoming from “the Vatican.” In a word, that’s garbage.

It’s pernicious to infer that this sort of thing is OK to undertake…
 
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GregoryPalamas:
Can you justify an “age of reason”. The practice of separating the three initiatory sacraments is a late invention of the Latin Church. Sort of Protestant, if one asks. When one sins they go to confession. Specifically, we teach children the meaning of confession at second grade. Do we really know if they actually understand fully what this means? I don’t know.

CDL
That is why it says “ABOUT the age of seven”. Someone who knows the childs mental development must determine their readiness for the Sacraments of Reconciliation and Holy Communion. Like parents and teachers (catechists)
 
I happened to be working on something in the Second Grade room today when Father came in to review the little ones before Saturday (the Big Day). He was helping them know what the confessional was like,and trying to get them to remember to pause between sins…and to remember to go to confession AGAIN soon after their First Confession. They are going over Friday for a trial run.
 
Br. Rich SFO:
That is why it says “ABOUT the age of seven”. Someone who knows the childs mental development must determine their readiness for the Sacraments of Reconciliation and Holy Communion. Like parents and teachers (catechists)
I’m wondering if this particular idea that parents and teachers should “determine readiness” of children to receive Sacraments contributes to children delaying their First Confession. For some reason, many people I talk to find the idea of Confession much more “confusing” and “scary” for children than First Communion, and they don’t think that 7 y.o. can possibly sin or know what sin is. Perhaps this “loophole” is what is causing all of the confusion on the proper order of Sacraments in the Latin Rite?
 
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Giannawannabe:
I’m wondering if this particular idea that parents and teachers should “determine readiness” of children to receive Sacraments contributes to children delaying their First Confession. For some reason, many people I talk to find the idea of Confession much more “confusing” and “scary” for children than First Communion, and they don’t think that 7 y.o. can possibly sin or know what sin is. Perhaps this “loophole” is what is causing all of the confusion on the proper order of Sacraments in the Latin Rite?
That is correct a 7y.o. may not be ready for Confession and may not be capable of personal sin because the individual child cannot reason right from wrong. It then holds that the child is also not ready for Holy Communion either. So when the age of reason is reached is reached for the child both Sacraments are available to them. It is the Church that has determined the order of reception.
 
Br. Rich SFO:
That is correct a 7y.o. may not be ready for Confession and may not be capable of personal sin because the individual child cannot reason right from wrong. It then holds that the child is also not ready for Holy Communion either. So when the age of reason is reached is reached for the child both Sacraments are available to them. It is the Church that has determined the order of reception.
Br. Rich
if what you have said is correct then mentally challenged children will not be able to Receive the Most Precious Body and Blood of Christ as they may not be able to understand Who they Receive, and may also not have an understanding of Right and Wrong.

Any comments ?
 
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wannabee:
Br. Rich
if what you have said is correct then mentally challenged children will not be able to Receive the Most Precious Body and Blood of Christ as they may not be able to understand Who they Receive, and may also not have an understanding of Right and Wrong.

Any comments ?
Remembering that the only Sacrament necessary for Salvation is Baptism. A mentally challenged child would after Baptism be in a state of perfect Grace. If they could never attain the use of reason they could receive Holy Communion, Confirmation, Anointing of the Sick, because they are in a state of perfect Grace. This of course is the extreme case where a child never is able to attain the use of reason. For others who can it may be sixteen or seventeen before they are at the “age of reason”.
 
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