First date conversations

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It’s not my fault, like she didn’t talk about anything unless I said something first
 
I’ve had good first dates where we just have dinner and have nice conversation though
 
Not assigning fault, it is just advice from someone who has been around the sun a few times.
 
It did feel like an interview though. I’ll consider it. I don’t go on dates that often tho so idk, I’ll let you know in a year or something lol
 
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As a first meeting, I prefer a coffee or dinner date. Not everyone likes that but I don’t see anything wrong with it.
 
Well what I meant is if she is shy, or hasn’t dated much and she may need a second date to not feel awkward. She could be a really good match and you won’t ever know because you aren’t willing to try again. What’s one more date? If she says no, you have your answer. If she says yes, do something more “fun” this time and don’t interview her again. Go bowling, it’s always good for a laugh especially if you are not a great bowler.
 
I don’t think coffee is a great first date. It is too short and probably did feel like you were interviewing her to see if she passed the test. 🥴 Dinner has a more natural beginning and end flow.
 
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Told her I had a good time and would like to meet again this week. She said she did too but would let me know so idk what that means
 
She might have just meant she didn’t know about this week. Leave it open ended when you ask by asking when is good for her, not picking a specific day. 🙂
 
Whenever you feel like it. Don’t be a game player or assume that she is one. Just ask when you feel like it.

As the saying goes: “True story.”

I ran into I guy I knew from high school, after not seeing him in about 8 years. He said on a Saturday afternoon, “we should get together on Friday, I’ll call you.” Okay, cool. By the time he finally called on Thursday afternoon, I had given up on him calling and had made other plans. He said it was no biggie and we planned for another day. We ended up getting married a couple of years or so later. 🙂 But 20 years later he used to tell the story that I stood him up. 🥴 No, he never called in a timely manner.

Just sayin.

So that is why I suggested you call her, mention you would like to do xyz, and ask what day is good for her.
 
I read the title as “first date conversions” and I was like wow this cat is really slipping under the radar with his evangelism.

“So uh, ya wanna grab a drink?”

A few hours later

“So yeah, Arius was a big dummy and St. Peter was the rock oh and you should totally stop eating those oyster crackers at your church”
 
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I read the title as “first date conversions” and I was like wow this cat is really slipping under the radar with his evangelism.

“So uh, ya wanna grab a drink?”

A few hours later

“So yeah, Arius was a big dummy and St. Peter was the rock oh and you should totally stop eating those oyster crackers at your church”
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For a funny, but very secular version of what not to say on a first date, check out this expose from the Daily Mail:

 
Interesting. Are you as clipped in your speaking as you are in your writing? Just wondering about your style of speaking.
 
What do you mean by clipped in my speaking? I sometimes will pause to think about what I’m going to say before I say it but most of the time conversations come quite naturally
 
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“Said those things.”

Meaning, do you speak in full sentences in conversations? I have noticed that about your writing on other threads too. 😊
 
Of course I do. I just use caf on my phone so I try to shorten my sentences when possible
 
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