First Nine Fridays Question

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I have begun making the First Fridays but have hit a bit of a snag. It has come to my attention that the first Friday in April is Good Friday thus there will be no Mass celebrated. Does this cancel out my continuous run of first Fridays and do I have to slide down the snake all the way back to the starting line? Please say no - I’ve come too far up the ladder! :o
 
I have begun making the First Fridays but have hit a bit of a snag. It has come to my attention that the first Friday in April is Good Friday thus there will be no Mass celebrated. Does this cancel out my continuous run of first Fridays and do I have to slide down the snake all the way back to the starting line? Please say no - I’ve come too far up the ladder! :o
Some churches do offer Communion at Good Friday services which is consecrated and reserved from the day before - remember it doesn’t have to be Mass, just communion.

I for one am going to talk to my priest about it, I’m definitely not the only one doing First Fridays, and perhaps with a bit of gentle prodding we can persuade our priests to help us keep up with our obligation 🙂

Don’t get upset if you can’t though - I’m absolutely positive your good work up till now will not go unrewarded 😃
 
Thanks for clearing that up Lily! 👋 I know that there are others in our local parish making the First Fridays also so I will ask if our priest will be offering Communion.

May I just ask…um…how do you know so much about the Church?! Lol…sorry that sounds a bit silly…but most of the Aussie Catholics I know around our age don’t even know the basics of the Faith. I guess what I’m asking is - what did your parents do to raise a practising, knowledgable Catholic? Enquiring parents need to know!!! 🙂
 
I have been reading a pamphlet outlining the “12 Promises of Our Lord to Saint Margaret-Mary for Souls Devoted to His Sacred Heart”. Perhaps many on these forums already know about the First Fridays or have already made them. As a fairly new covert to the Faith this is my first time. Our Lord first appeared to St Magaret-Mary on 27th December 1673 and continued to appear for 18 months revealing His Sacred Heart and His promises to those who would devote themselves to His Heart.

The promises of Our Lord are truly amazing - our priests have recently been encouraging everyone to make the effort to complete them - and to encourage every Catholic we know to do so also. My DH and I are determined to complete our nine Fridays of consecutively receiving communion in order to receive these promised helps from Our Lord. We are also attending these First Friday Masses to increase our devotion to His Sacred Heart.

Promise 11 is specifcally for “those who promote this devotion” (to Our Lord’s Sacred Heart) so here goes!

❤️ ❤️ ❤️

The 12 Promises of Our Lord
  1. I will give them all the graces necessary in their state of life.
  2. I will establish peace in their families.
  3. I will comfort them in all their afflictions.
  4. I will be their secure refuge during life, and above all in death.
  5. I will bestow a large blessing upon all their undertakings.
  6. Sinners shall find in My Heart the source and the infinite ocean of mercy.
  7. Tepid souls shall grow fervent.
  8. Fervent souls shall quickly rise to high perfection.
  9. I will bless every place where a picture of My Heart shall be set up and honoured.
  10. I will give to priests the gift of touching the most hardened hearts.
  11. Those who shall promote this devotion shall have their names written in My Heart, never to be blotted out.
  12. I promise thee in the excessive mercy of My Heart that My all-powerful love will grant to all those who receive Communion on the First Fridays of nine consectutive months the grace of final penitence; they shall not die in My displeasure nor without receiving their Sacraments; My Divine Heart shall be their safe refuge in this last moment.
❤️ ❤️ ❤️

What Catholic wouldn’t want to be blessed with these graces? Run don’t walk to the nearest Catholic Church this coming First Friday! :gopray2:
 
Thanks for clearing that up Lily! 👋 I know that there are others in our local parish making the First Fridays also so I will ask if our priest will be offering Communion.

May I just ask…um…how do you know so much about the Church?! Lol…sorry that sounds a bit silly…but most of the Aussie Catholics I know around our age don’t even know the basics of the Faith. I guess what I’m asking is - what did your parents do to raise a practising, knowledgable Catholic? Enquiring parents need to know!!!
Hehe … not silly at all, very flattering in fact :o And you’re absolutely right, and I could mention members of my own family who are woefully ignorant, but I won’t.

The main thing I think my parents did was teaching by doing - and enjoying the doing. They’re secular Franciscans, and hanging around their Fraternity meetings and socials was a great no-pressure and fairly fun way to be involved. I’m still not formally a member of the SFO, though I may well end up joining them or perhaps some other Third Order.

They were also always heavily involved with the local church community - to the point where the priests would come over to our house for weekend lunch every week or two. We used to go to things like First Friday Masses, Ash Wednesday and so on as a family, sometimes pray the Rosary together, stuff like that.

Tell you what, though, being friends with the local clergy and/or nuns is a great way to learn. I think they’re so often used to being misunderstood that they enjoy it when they have someone to actually talk to about their beliefs.

They tend to be very patient with young’uns too, even when when said young’uns are disagreeable and argumentative so-and-sos - not mentioning any names :whistle: :whistle:

As much as my folks did, though, it’s no guarantee unfortunately. I fell away for a while, though not completely, in my 20s 😦 and only returned to the sacrament of Confession about a year ago. Since then I’ve learned an awful lot from CAF and EWTN to be honest.

Above all I’d say pray, not too lengthy but heartfelt praying - with your children but above all FOR them! And get 'em to Church regularly and onto CAF and they should be OK 😉
 
Don’t get upset if you can’t though - I’m absolutely positive your good work up till now will not go unrewarded 😃
Lily, I meant to explain why I really didn’t want to have to start again. It’s not that I thought the Masses would be “wasted”, it’s just that I have been attending them with my one and two year olds…by myself! If you knew these young men you would know that this is a very foolish thing to do lol! :o I feel especially bad because they are the only children there so our noise reeeally stands out. I fret about disturbing the other parishoners.

Last time however several extremely gorgeous people came up to us and thanked me for bringing the kids to Mass! I had been feeling so anxious about keeping them still and quiet that I was literally sick in the stomach. But these lovely people lifted me out of my anxiety! 🙂 God Bless them and keep them! :gopray:

My two year old has now turned three and has achieved a little more ahem maturity…well sort of! :rolleyes: Hopefully it will get easier. :o
 
Lily, I meant to explain why I really didn’t want to have to start again. It’s not that I thought the Masses would be “wasted”, it’s just that I have been attending them with my one and two year olds…by myself! If you knew these young men you would know that this is a very foolish thing to do lol! :o I feel especially bad because they are the only children there so our noise reeeally stands out. I fret about disturbing the other parishoners.

Last time however several extremely gorgeous people came up to us and thanked me for bringing the kids to Mass! I had been feeling so anxious about keeping them still and quiet that I was literally sick in the stomach. But these lovely people lifted me out of my anxiety! 🙂 God Bless them and keep them! :gopray:

My two year old has now turned three and has achieved a little more ahem maturity…well sort of! :rolleyes: Hopefully it will get easier. :o
Hehe, no need to explain. And try not to focus on what other people wil think of you bringing your children - I think it’s wonderful and remember our Lord himself was no older than 40 days the first time he went to church (or the local equivalent).

I have a niece, now four, who went through an amazingly rough terrible twos. But she’s grown out of it pretty well, and is a delightful young lady now, for the most part.
 
The main thing I think my parents did was teaching by doing - and enjoying the doing. They’re secular Franciscans, and hanging around their Fraternity meetings and socials was a great no-pressure and fairly fun way to be involved. I’m still not formally a member of the SFO, though I may well end up joining them or perhaps some other Third Order.

Tell you what, though, being friends with the local clergy and/or nuns is a great way to learn. I think they’re so often used to being misunderstood that they enjoy it when they have someone to actually talk to about their beliefs.

They tend to be very patient with young’uns too, even when when said young’uns are disagreeable and argumentative so-and-sos - not mentioning any names :whistle: :whistle:
OK - exposing my ignorance here - what is a secular Franciscan?

We love having our priests over - we get to pester them with a million questions on religion and the Church. 😃 It is one of our favourite topics in case you haven’t guessed lol! Last time Father R was leaving he said “Ask me again! I’ll be rude and invite myself”! I guess he loves hanging out with a family too. Whenever he greets our boys Father R always says things like “Hey future Priest!” or " Hey you might grow up to be a Priest one day, you think about that uh!" I love the way he does this with all the boys at Mass. He is one of our FSSP priests and he really makes the priesthood an attractive option for young men. He is welcome at our table anytime!

We are very grateful to have found this environment to raise our children in. Our then two year old (now three) used to say that “he wanted to be up the front like Farva at Mass”. We of course were extremely chuffed and congratulated ourselves on having produced a son with a priestly vocation at the tender age of two. 😃 Now however if you ask him what he wants to be when he grows up he yells “A Stuntman!” :eek: Every mother’s dream! :rolleyes: Father R come quick we need you! 😛
 
OK - exposing my ignorance here - what is a secular Franciscan?

We love having our priests over - we get to pester them with a million questions on religion and the Church. 😃 It is one of our favourite topics in case you haven’t guessed lol! Last time Father R was leaving he said “Ask me again! I’ll be rude and invite myself”! I guess he loves hanging out with a family too. Whenever he greets our boys Father R always says things like “Hey future Priest!” or " Hey you might grow up to be a Priest one day, you think about that uh!" I love the way he does this with all the boys at Mass. He is one of our FSSP priests and he really makes the priesthood an attractive option for young men. He is welcome at our table anytime!

We are very grateful to have found this environment to raise our children in. Our then two year old (now three) used to say that “he wanted to be up the front like Farva at Mass”. We of course were extremely chuffed and congratulated ourselves on having produced a son with a priestly vocation at the tender age of two. 😃 Now however if you ask him what he wants to be when he grows up he yells “A Stuntman!” :eek: Every mother’s dream! :rolleyes: Father R come quick we need you! 😛
Most of the religious orders (Franciscans, Dominicans, Benedictines, Carmelites etc) have groups of lay members attached to them, which are variously called ‘Third Orders’ ‘Tertiaries’ ‘Secular Orders’ ‘Oblates’ or a couple of other names.

The basic idea is that these groups are for people who can’t or don’t want to fully enter religious life (they may be married or want to be free to marry, they may want to pursue a demanding career that doesn’t combine with being a priest, nun or brother, etc) but do want to as much as possible live in the spirit and style of the particular religious order.

It usually involves a period of 1 to 3 years of instruction and formation, monthly meetings of a local chapter or fraternity, maybe yearly retreats, prayer obligatons such as praying the Divine Office as the regular religious do.
 
Peace everyone,

I’ve recently stumbled on to the traditional devotion to the Sacred Heart. I’ve been impressed with what I’ve read regarding a full-fledged devotion to the Sacred Heart. As a secular Carmelite we have a daily rule which helps keeps Christ before us throughout the day. The devotion to the S.H. seems like another wonderful way of achieving a constant remembrance of God’s loving presence.

I would like to mention St. Gertrude the Great’s writings from around the 13th century on the Sacred Heart. While St. Margret Mary’s revelations focused on much of the external practices of devotion to the S.H., the revelations of our Lord to St. Gertrude dealt in large part with the internal, mental/spiritual aspects of the S.H. devotion.

A great little books that arranges her writings in a 30 day series of meditations is Love, Peace, and Joy by the Very Rev. Andre Prevot. Find it at:

tanbooks.com/index.php/page/shop:flypage/product_id/231/keywords/+love+peace+and+joy+/

Best, :tiphat:
 
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