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but forgiveness is a choice which is required regardless of whether the other party acknowledges the cause for forgiveness nor whether they accept it, nor how awful their offence.
Jesus, in the many times that He commands us to forgive, never places any condition upon forgiveness. A few of Jesus’ quotes
“Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven;" Luke 6:37
"and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him.” Luke 17:4
Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” Luke 23:34 (He had been betrayed, abandoned, tortured, and was being executed.)
Jesus taught us to pray to God “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us” in other words, “don’t forgive us if we don’t forgive others”.
“Do not judge others and you will not yourself be judged. Grant pardon and you will be pardoned. Give, and there will be gifts for you: a full measure.” [Luke 6:36-38]
“Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you; in this way you will be children of your Father in heaven, for He causes the sun to rise on bad men as well as good, and His rain to fall on honest and dishonest persons alike…You must therefore be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect.*” *[Matthew 5:43-48]