FWIW: This idea of choosing which “style of Mass” one prefers is very much not part of Catholicism, and is a very Protestant-leaning ideology, closely connected to congregationalism. Contrary to popular belief, Catholicism isn’t a religion based on feelings. We do not determine how efficacious something is, or how good it is based on how it makes us feel. We go to Mass for the Mass. That is, the Most Holy Sacrifice. We don’t go for the music, the homily, to see our friends, etc. We go to give proper worship and adoration to God. The difference between sacred music such as Gregorian/Byzantine/Coptic Chant, etc and whatever it is that is most common at Masses is the sacred music isn’t an “add-on,” but rather part of the Mass, which helps us to lift our heart and mind to God in prayer. This is not the same as that “praise Jesus” feeling created by upbeat music. The lifting our heart and mind to God, isn’t a feeling, but something which occurs in the the intellect.
And before anyone says it, the choice between EF Mass and the OF Mass is not same as choosing which genre/style of music you prefer at Mass.