Ben Masada;5564709:
Firstly - I should have put ‘good’ Jew in quote marks when applied to Jesus. Obviously the New Testament indicates that Jesus did many things - touching corpses and lepers, eating with unwashed hands and associating with sinners - for which He was criticised at the time, and which certainly would’ve made Him look like a ‘bad’ (again in quote marks) Jew to others. To make up such breaches of the law flies in the face of logic, it would turn off most potential Jewish converts and certainly Gentiles would not care either way.
**LilyM, can you imagine how untrue is all the above about Jesus because of the purpose it was written for? If you reread it undressed of any Christian preconceived notion, you will realize that Jesus is intentionally depicted to be the antithesis of being Jewish. Not that he is made to break the Jewish laws, but to prove with his actions that something has changed. Hence, the Pauline policy of Replacement Theology. The paragraph above would be a contradiction to Matthew 5:19, when we have Jesus declaring to have come to fulfill, and confirm for our fulfilling, the Jewish laws down to the letter; even to the dot of the letter. **
I find your whole train of thought incredibly disturbing. Fact is Mary was exposed to this censure precisely BECAUSE Jesus didn’t (by your logic) put an end to that censure by stating that she was His wife. If He had stated (verbally, it doesn’t need a gesture) that they were married, it would have stopped the critics dead much more effectively than what He did say.
What was Mary exposed to? Pehaps glances? Nobody said anything. Simon did not censure her. If there was something going on in his mind, we all know that it never came out. Perhaps the thing never happened, and it was interpolated by Luke to tell the readers later that Jesus was so divine that he could read minds. But do you know something? I am glad he put that down. Othewise, we would never have a Pope (Gregory) to identify that woman for us as Mary Magdalene. I am sure you agree with me that the word of a Pope deserves credibility.
But to not even verbally state that the woman is your wife when she is criticised for making a public gesture of affection - is a verbal statement not permissible? Even when, as in this case, it would’ve SAVED the wife from censure? Sounds illogical, twistedly unloving and lacking in righteous concern for one’s God-given spouse.
**What makes you think that Jesus should have identified his wife, because you think she was critized for that public gesture of affection?
She was not. Simon never spoke his mind. If Jesus read his mind, so what? Nobody else did. Even Simon did not know he was being read. Righteous concern for one’s God-given spouse has undergone evolution throughout these 2000 years. What was righteous in the threatment of our wives 2000 years ago is no longer the same today. Feminism has taken care of that change. At that time, respect to one’s wife was to hide her. Today is to expose her. Women today want to be seen, and no longer to be “for your eyes only.” **
The whole thing flies in the face of the scriptural idea of marriage. It spits in the eye of the scriptural injunction for husband and wife to cleave to each other and become one flesh. I would, I could, no more fail to acknowledge my spouse, whatever they did, as my spouse - flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone - than I’d fail to acknowledge my right hand or my left foot.
**LilyM, you are of the romantic type. A rare specie nowadays. The Scriptural idea of “cleaving to each other and becoming of one flesh” has been so long out of fashion that I doubt anyone remembers how it used to be. **
Your later comments also directly contradict your earlier comments that not only is public affection between husband and wife ‘beautiful and natural’ (you used those or similar words) but that you get great enjoyment out of watching it yourself.
Did I say I enjoyed watching public affections between husbands and wives? I must have been having a dream of Utopia. I can almost say that a couple walking down the street is married exactly for the lack of affections. There are no public passionate affections between husbands and wives. Once the magic is gone, mascarade affections please no eyes.
If this is the case, then what was there about what Mary’s ‘beautiful and natural’ gesture that wouldn’t lead Jesus to either lovingly reciprocate, or at least verbally tell the other guests so that they too could enjoy it for what it was rather than thinking it was something inappropriate? Something that is beautiful and natural cannot be at the same time, as your later comments indicate, something to be avoided and disowned.
**Do you know why Jesus’ disciples did not find Mary’s public demonstration of affection inappropriate? Because they knew that the woman was Jesus’ wife. And do you know why Simon didn’t say anything? Because he was probably aware of the same. Any good psychological reader can see that the purpose of the case was not the anointing per se but to enhance Jesus’ divinity for his omnipresence at reading
people’s thoughts. **