for husband

[fa1en]

please pray for him and his job. it seems he is thinking about quitting due to stress, with no other job on the line, no insurance, and a high needs kid to think about. he had a very flexible low paying job before. He could come home as early as 2 pm and be able to hang out. This job is tradtitional 9-5 but it is the same work so he knows he can do it, but he thinks by not being home when dd is he is being a bad father and consequently getting all stressed out. Remember dd is not home alone, I am a SAHM so he does not have to be home for child care, he just wants to be able to do the fun stuff with her every day. Unfortunatly if I go back to work and he stays home, it would be financial disaster as now I could not possibly get even half of what he makes…maybe a little more than minimum.

So pray for me too because I am really stressed out

 

[Philotheatoo]

If he is truly too stressed out, he should not be working there; he should be looking for a different job. If you still have a young child at home, it sounds like he is fairly young himself. Being stressed out over work and ‘checking out’ at his age though, may mean he needs to see a therapist.

Money should not be the issue here ~ journeying together, with your child, should be an issue you both discuss and can be comfortable and supporting of.

Good luck to you and your family.

 

[Luvtosew]

I get the impression from your post its not the work but the hours that is stressing him out, instead of getting home at 2 he gets home at 5.

Can’t he play with your child when he gets home and on weekends.

Does he think the stress would be less if you had no money, food and ins.

We all have to do things we’re not happy about, thats life and he needs to work.

I sure understand where your coming from, and I pray for you that he adapts.

 

[fa1en]

that is exactly what we need, prayers that he can adapt quickly and not be stressed

i have started looking at the big box stores to see what i can get. something is better than nothing.

dd is not young, she has health issues but she’s almost a teen, so there is no playing really, just watching her do her practices and competitions

in this economy people have to work longer for less…the other company was having financial issues (no wonder if their employees were only working half days) i really should have gotten more involved and questioned it

 

[bearer]

Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on fa1en’s husand and bless him with Your grace. O Lord, fill his heart with Your love, so that through You, he may turn and love his wife and children as You love Your Church. Give him strength and peace to overcome his troubles and anxiety and provide for his family as our Heavenly Father provides for each us. Lord Christ, I trust in You! Amen.

 

[MS_SURVEYOR]

***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.

Amen.***

 

[kvj888]

Loving father may you give the things this household needs…

saint joseph… pray for us…

 

[Luvtosew]

can you video tape them for him and yous can sit and watch as a family in the evenings.
just a thought, but maybe you thought of it. I just know how money issues can lead to so much stress in a marriage which is not good either.

 

[244Rocket]

Praying hard for your family.

 

[fa1en]

If he is truly too stressed out, he should not be working there; he should be looking for a different job. If you still have a young child at home, it sounds like he is fairly young himself. Being stressed out over work and ‘checking out’ at his age though, may mean he needs to see a therapist.

Money should not be the issue here ~ journeying together, with your child, should be an issue you both discuss and can be comfortable and supporting of.

Good luck to you and your family.

Looking for another job now is very unrealistic. No one wants to hire someone who just recently switched jobs. Even DH who had to hire staff would NEVER hire someone who had more than 1 job change in a span of 12 months. He has to stick it out for at least 12 months so he needs prayers.

 

[ready]

Lord, please help fa1en’s husband to carry his cross courageously, patiently and lovingly. Help him to see he can’t quit his job without another job offer. Please help him to be able to cope with his stress; grant him strength and peace. Maybe he could speak with his Pastor for some support and spiritual guidance. If he needs to speak with a counselor, please help him not to be ashamed to seek one out. Just help him to keep being responsible; help him not to make any bad decisions. Thank you, Lord, for hearing my prayer.

 

[Miriam2626]

Prayers for him are on the way.

God bless you.

Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on fa1en’s husand and bless him with Your grace. O Lord, fill his heart with Your love, so that through You, he may turn and love his wife and children as You love Your Church. Give him strength and peace to overcome his troubles and anxiety and provide for his family as our Heavenly Father provides for each us. Lord Christ, I trust in You! Amen.