Yes, I agree, you should study and pray and ask for God’s guidance.
I left Mormonism a long time ago, decades, and became and atheist. I was baptized a Catholic last March. When I first started going to Mass, yes, it was the prayers, the ritual, and the people that I liked. As an atheist, I missed having a place to
belong.
That is not why I became a Catholic. It is much deeper than that. When I started studying about the Catholic faith I had no intention of getting baptized. God led me here, and there is no where else for me to be. The Eucharist is a big part of that, I can’t even describe how profound it is to me.
Sacramental continuity was something that was important to me. You can read in early Christian writings a description of the worship of a Christian community, and find exactly the same thing going on at Mass today. And I mean more than in the activity of how it is done, I mean, in a Sacramental sense. They are unchanged, divine, gift. Something that is not found in any of the restoration churches, and few of the Protestant denominations.
Community is important to me. I too struggled with figuring out how to be an active part of my Catholic parish. I don’t know how JW’s work, but in Mormonism, you can’t get away from being a part of the community, even if you wanted to. If you don’t show up for a church function, someone calls to ask if something is wrong, and if you need anything. This is a very attractive attribute of Mormonism that many people define as why they like Mormonism, and also a reason why people don’t leave, even if/when they stop believing the doctrines themselves.
So being a new Catholic, I am still forming relationships. If all you go to is Mass, you won’t build those. Mass is for worship, not socializing. You have to pay attention to what is in the parish bulletin, and if something interests you, you have to take the initiative to be there and participate. You can also contact the parish office and let them know you are looking for something to do. There is always something to do!
Also, if your parish has a coffee hour after Mass, that is a good place to meet people.
That is unfortunate, and no, there is no excuse.
I agree, this is most unfortunate. I don’t have the experience of being a Catholic to tell you what happened. I can say, that Pope John Paul and now Benedict are very strong on encouraging people to discern a religious life. And I believe it is having a positive effect. I know young people who are joining both clergy and religious orders, and I know very few people well enough to be aware of this.
Yes, they can. My parish, I believe, does. Our priest is always addressing this sort of thing. Encouraging the building of community. We have all sorts of groups, from youth to old age.
Also, there was a thread a couple of days ago, a family moving into Utah. Before they moved they had contacted the parish and there were going to be 3 Catholic families ready and waiting to help them move into their house. These sort of things go on, just in the Catholic world, people seem to just do them and you don’t hear about them unless you know someone.
I agree, the churches that have broken off from the Catholic Church have taken themselves away from the Body of Christ. We miss them, in more ways than you are talking about.

And they too are missing being a part of that Body.
No, I don’t believe that at all. If I did, I wouldn’t be Catholic.