I have noticed many discussions on other threads regarding non-denominational Protestants. For those of you who are non-denominational, what is it that draws you toward a non-denominational church? What are some reasons why you are not Lutheran, Baptist, Methodist, Presbyterian, Church of Christ, Anglican, etc.?
I am currently a member of an AoG church. Mainly because there really isn’t a non-denominational church around here and I need to be a part of a church. I still consider myself non-denominational. (If it was anyone but lak asking, I probably would have ignored this thread. )
What I love about non-denominational Churches:
Diversity With Love: There is diversity in who is there. During Sunday School the diverse theologies (note we had both Calvinists and Arminians and everything in between there) spurred on Bible study and discussion that resulted in a deeper understanding of Scripture than can be had by simply having someone pronounce the truth and every nodding in agreement. I have sat between a homeless man and a affluent Business man’s family in Church. After church the business man served food to the homeless man so he would not be hungry. I have never encountered this in a denominational church. (I have seen them offer food to the hungry or other impersonal help, but not welcome them in as family even if they haven’t had a bath in a month or have other “issues”)
Unity: While we did not have the same kind of unity seen in the Catholic church (identical doctrines) there is another kind of unity there. Despite the doctrinal, ethnic, and economic diversity, we all agree on the core doctrines and we all have the same ultimate goal… Worship God, Learn and follow God’s will, Love God first and then Love others. Really, it’s like having a close-knit Christian family.
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Humility**: With differing doctrines under one roof comes the requirement that people accept that they are fallible and may be wrong. Even the church leaders readily say that they are not prefect in knowledge and wisdom yet and will admit they are wrong when they are.
What I do NOT love about them:
**Gossip/Petty arguments: **We are all human and any family that is close (be it natural family or Christian family) also has their little problems. I often found that welcoming everyone in as “Family” and therefore closeness leads to some people who are really there to cause trouble. There also are those who do not intend to cause such troubles but are still immature in their Christian growth and succumb to petty bickering and gossip.
**Doctrinal Diversity: **While the diversity often led to indepth Bible study and other good things, I sometimes wished for someone to “Just tell me how it is.” What I mean is that the way non-denominational church doctrine works is that it only defines core Christian beliefs. Becoming knowledgeable on a subject of doctrine not on that list requires intense prayer and study, not simply asking one church leader to spell it out. In this, I think the Catholics have it pretty easy!
**Irreverence: **In non-denominational churches I sometimes get agitated when children run in the sanctuary, when worship teams forget to quiet down a bit and spend some time simply in awe of the greatness of God and other similar things. Their very real excitement about God is often dwelt on so much that they forget to be still and know He is God. Balance is important.
Looking over what I’ve written here I guess I’d say the close knit family is what is the main draw for me. In Scriptures we see Jesus with His followers doing things together, Praying together, eating together, traveling together. You become like those you spend time with.
People here on CAF seem upset by the idea of coffee shops and Bookstores in the churches. I understand the feeling they have that it’s irreverent but I also deeply understand the value of living in a Christian Church family and such things contribute to the closeness that is shared there.
Most denominations seem to be saying “We know everything, we have it all figured out. Everyone else is wrong,
but NOT US!” I’m not saying people can’t know God’s Truth, just that we are all human and can make mistakes. It tends to create a cliquish sort of atmosphere rather than a family one. What if they are wrong about something? They can’t change it cause they are defined by it. As some Catholics here like to point out, The Holy Spirit couldn’t have told each separate group something different.