Tgette and Cathaopologist:
I hate to say this but the attitude in the Baptist church I’ve been attending for the last five years is that they care very much about the Catholic church. They have way too many people that are worried about “those poor Catholics”, or how they feel they must “witness to Catholics to save them from damnation”. Our Pastor even did a series contrasting Christianity and Catholicism, (and of course how Catholics are wrong). Thats when I first started becoming an apologist. Its also when I feel I turned the corner on my protestant beliefs.
When I left the CC, I just wanted to have a persoanl relationship with God without pounds of rules and regulations on how I was supposed to find him. Instead I have found over the last five years that as much as they try to deny it, the Protestants have just as much legalism and traditionalism of their own that they adhere to!
Funny how many Catholic traditions I have seen in various “Protestant” churches.
In my case…Who knows… I may just move to the mountains… I’m sure I can find God there without someone telling me “do this, do that, stand up, kneel down, genuflect, mumble latin responses that you don’t comprehend like everyone else, etc. etc. etc”
I get asked a lot "Well if you feel that way why are you still in a protestant church. The answer is simple (and complicated) My wife of 29 years is a Baptist. She kept her promise to the church and raised our kids Catholic. She sat through mass and took the kids to all the functions, heck she was a better Catholic than I was! Now that our kids are raised I’m trying to be a good husband and let her attend the church of her youth. She has no animosity towards catholics but does not want to convert. I figure she did it for me so the least I can do is do the same for her.
Simple right?
What are you kidding???
The complicated side is that according to the Catechism of the church if I don’t agree with ALL of the teachings of the church I am a “heretic”. I am one of those guys with very old fashioned standards and I had a choice. I could sit in the pews and be a hypocrite like so many other Catholis I know that practice birth control, or get drunk, and cheat on their wives, etc.
Or I could leave…
Not wanting to be a hypocrite, I left…