There is a distinction between saying we - by our sins - destroy our relationship with God, and saying that if we fail to live up to God’s expectations He withdraws His grace. There is a difference that, from a practical perspective may seem small, but from a theological and implicational perspective is large and hairy.
In my case, my dad kept the car from me until I earned His trust back. But there is a distinction between your analogy and the relationship between God and man in Christ. God never “takes” the keys away. He lets us throw them away. When we repent the relationship is restored, but we still have an obligation to deal with the effects of our sin. These are two different issues. My concern was that LDS members seem to believe that their actions (apart from our acts in Christ) will keep God from withdrawing. Maybe I’m reading too much into the language I see, but it appears more like a contractual relationship rather than a covenantal one.
God never signed a contract with me. I am in a relationship with Him. Part of that relationship is a pledge of fidelity. Breach of that fidelity gives rise to consequences, even the destruction of the relationship in some instances, but it’s not a breach of contract situation, wherein I forfeit damages to God… nor can I compel God to “pay” me what he “owes” me for my good behavior.
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No. There’s a distinction here that you are missing. I do not believe that I can “accumulate grace” by simply “being good.” Any grace I receive is the result of my first being in a right relationship with God in Jesus Christ. If I destroy that relationship, no amount of my individually “being good” will re-establish that relationship. You seem to be taking Jesus out of the equation here, and/or making the relationship between God and man one of bargained for exchange. That is not the road to salvation. The road to salvation is Christ and the cross, not hard work and personal sacrifice.
Peace,
-Robert