Former homeschooled kids: what do you think of your education in hindsight?

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I was homeschooled K-12, and while there were some great aspects (it encouraged me to become an avid pleasure-reader and instilled a love of volunteering), I feel that it greatly stunted my social/emotional development and didn’t do much to prepare me for college.

I’m really interested to know how it went for other people. Maybe if we share our experiences, we can help parents who are thinking about homeschooling to make a more informed decision.
 
I was homeschooled K-12. My father had a bachelors in science and my mother attended two years of college.

I have never had any problem socializing or excelling in life. College was very similar to homeschooling and I had a 3.9GPA.

While homeschooling, I took karate, played flag football, tried swimming, and enjoyed being in a homeschool group.
 
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My father wasn’t really involved as far as teaching, and my mother doesn’t have a degree of any sort. I never got any math higher than algebra, and the science was all book-reading (no labs). You have to be honest about your own knowledge, and supplement where you fall short as a teacher.
 
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He worries I am projecting my own very negative experience of secondary school which I probably am. Homeschooling is unusual in the UK and is usually met with the response of “but homeschooled kids all come across as unsocialized weirdos” which I don’t think is fair.
 
If you’re worried about socialization, having them do Scouts might be a good idea. Really helped my brothers.
 
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I was homeschooled K-12. I’m in college now, Junior year and have a 3.9 grade average so far. And I will echo Cruciferi, college is so much like homeschooling, just a higher level.

As far as socializing goes, it is so easy to socialize in public school because you’re stuck with umpteen kids 5 days a week. But, one thing that I wonder, when in your adult life are you ever going to be in a room with 25 people your exact same age? When you homeschool, and you go to homeschool get-togthers you will have to interact with babies, toddlers, teenagers, young adults and adults. One thing I’ve consistently heard from folks is that homeschoolers can talk easily with adults in a mature way.

And, as Cruciferi noted, you have to actual seek out folks when you are homeschooled to be friends with. And there is nothing wrong with that. Because that’s oftentimes what you are going to have to do as an adult. Put them in activities that required socialization. I was in soccer for a few years and I served at the altar (still do actually as the head MC).

But, as a homeschooled parent, never let folks laugh you off as someone who does nothing. My mom would smack them over the head. She does so much. But the good things is there is so many resources. You can get your kids to take online classes (I did some of that during highschool). Homeschool co-ops.

And the best part? You can do school in your PJs. And have Friday off if you work hard. I loved my homeschool experience and wouldn’t change it for the world.
 
Social Studies (Emphasis: History) with a minor in Teaching and Learning. Stepping stone to College professor.
 
I majored in Urban Forestry. It was a two year associates program.
 
Good news, you’re still a homeschooling success! Which is better than 1/3 of the people I attended college with who were publicly schooled and dropped out and got nothing…
 
My nephew was homeschooled for a few years in junior high and did just fine, but my sister supplemented his homeschool education by having him take a few classes at the public school (which they allowed) for the subjects she wasn’t prepared to help him with. So, while he was primarily homeschooled, he did have the benefit of having some social interaction with other kids his age.
 
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