I’ve been perusing the forum for topics on swearing, and found none which directly address my questions/points. Now, clearly taking the Lord’s name in vain or demeaning the place of eternal damnation into a mere expletive is wrong and sinful. Also, I will grant you the F-word because it is based on the act which is only naturally served in a loving marriage. I have forced myself out of the habit of using any of those in the last few months.
My question concerns words who’s meaning (usually) is not referring to anything sinful nor demeaning the Lord, and yet is still considered sinful. I would use the argument that it’s all about what you’re saying, not your words. Regardless of my words an insult is an insult no matter how small. Granted, I limit my usage according to appropriate time, place, and company and I use it strictly in an expletive sense, no negative feelings (except toward myself for stubbing my toe or something)
Something I often see as an argument against is that it’s offensive to many people and why would you want to offend brothers and sisters in Christ? But then I ask isn’t most of what we say probably offensive to someone? If I start talking about my religion I will obviously offend those who are not Christian. What if I’m talking about politics and someone who disagrees walks by? Those are the most pragmatic examples, but there are others, albeit they are more hyperbolic even if they do happen in real life.
I guess what I’m getting at is, do we want the abolition of free speech based on if something is offensive to us? I just don’t see the point of having free speech if there’s nothing to protect because it’s all been banned. I’m perfectly fine if someone doesn’t want to use it themselves. Although I certainly don’t agree with saying someone who uses foul language “has problems expressing themselves” or “has a limited intellect” which I’ve never been told personally but these kinds of statements are always brought out. Trust me, often when using an expletive in a non harmful way it can convey a whole new/different meaning than what many would call “baby talk.” That being the greatly varied way people swear without actually swearing. “gosh darn it” for example (Not that I say the expletive variant of that statement, just using an example)
Is there anything explicit in the Catechism on this?
What about words like “leg” that used to be very offensive, why is it ok now?
And by creating such a hyper-reactive, negative stigma about these certain words aren’t you locking the bad meaning in place? Honestly, there’s no victory to be had here. Either you lock the meaning in place, or you stop getting offended and they (whoever “they” are) come up with new words. Expletives will abound no matter what anyone does.
I don’t mean to sound condescending, I just love the freedoms, in this case speech, afforded to us in this great nation. Or at least they should be.