Fr. Pavone on the use of graphic images of abortion

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Franklin Delano Roosevelt was silent about what was happening to the europeon Jews under the left wing National socialist party of Germany…from 1935-45…it was not until 1960 or so that graphic images of that holocaust were flashed around the world…the horror of it shocked the world…abortion is the taking of innocent lives also…and now numbers in the tens of millions…child abuse is rampamt in all its ugly forms…abortion and just what happens during the procedure must be shown in all its disgusting imagery…why not we recently have been shown the dispicable practice of animal ie Dog fighting by a moronic football player…we have been shown that why not abortion!..or is human life not so important after all?..Nino
I don’t recall reading that it has been necessary to blow up graphic photos of either dog fighting or a child mutlitated, bloody and dead from child abuse, and put them on tractor trailers or trail trail them behind airplanes in order for adults to be aware either of the practice or that it was wrong.
 
Informed about such things as the physical and emotional consequences of choosing an abortion. What about the consequence of an innocent life being murdered?
Um, I was under the impression that all of us in this conversation understood that the two were equated? That abortion always and in every case ends the life of a child? Realizing that would fall under “emotional consequences,” in my book, unless you are saying that ending someone’s life has no emotional consequences for the person who made that decision?
Also if these people in ‘committed’ relationships are aware of the ‘consequences’ of abortion such as emotional discomfort, what difference does it make then that they are financially ready? All they have to do is hop down to the abortuary.
I am very surprised that you categorize the consequences of having an abortion as “emotional discomfort.” I would never be so dismissive. The emotional trauma and long lasting effects of choosing to end a human life I would believe fall a bit beyond the range of “discomfort.”

One of the factors women list in reasons why they chose to have an abortion is that they were not either emotionally or financially ready to have a child.
Context is that if the murder of that many people is not an ‘in your face’ assault on humanity, how can you say a billboard sign is?
Who is saying that ending these lives on this scale is acceptable?
According to whom? People in so called legally and emotionally committed realationships also have abortions.
Yes, they do, however, based on statistical data from the CDC for 2003 (the last year information is available currently, report came out in late 2006):
cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/ss5511a1.htm

“The highest percentages of reported abortions were for women who were unmarried (82%), white (55%), and aged <25 years (51%).”

This study from “Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health” on “Reasons U.S. Women Have Abortions:
Quantitative and Qualitative Perspectives” guttmacher.org/pubs/psrh/full/3711005.pdf

shows that “The reasons most frequently cited were that having a child would interfere with a woman’s education, work
or ability to care for dependents (74%); that she could not afford a baby now (73%); and that she did not want to be a
single mother or was having relationship problems (48%).”

Remove unmarried or in an unstable relationship and unable to afford a baby and you have addressed the root reasons most women give for choosing an abortion. In exactly what way would that constitute a bad thing?

So, I am not really at all sure why I am now being lambasted for saying that in order for there to be fewer abortions, it is good to teach that the best situation is for two adults to be in a stable marriage, want to be pregnant and able to financially support a child before they get pregnant?

Do you actually disagree with this or has it just become a kneejerk reaction to disagree with something purely because I am the one saying it?
What does this have to do with graphic images?
I was asked directly about whether I meant exclusively marriage when I said “committed relationship.” I was answering a question with a direct, honest answer that was actually relevant to the question being asked.
Also why do people have to be committed to each other? They can run to the abortuary if ‘something happens’.
Um, maybe because it’s a good thing for people to be committed to each other before they start having sex with each other?

Sorry, I was under the impression that the folks in this discussion actively wanted to stop people from believing that “they can run to the abortuary if something happens.”

You list your religion as “Catholic.” If your objections above are serious, you might want to have a discussion with your priest on what the Church teaches as appropriate for sexual relations between a man and a woman. If they are not serious, I am a bit at a loss as to your point?
 
So the abortion clinic get a free ride to go ahead and not only murder those children that enter the clinic, but also to traumatize those children on the outside by its existence next an area highly frequented by children?
Excuse me? You are going to need to be more specific.
A) free ride? by whom?

B) exactly how does an abortion clinic “traumatize those children on the outside by its existence?” Most clinics I have seen are basically plain office buildings. Most don’t have huge banners saying “get your abortion here!” across the outside nor are they running video billboards showing their services.
See mom go into clinic, see former mom walk out. One more down.
Is this clinic giving out stickers that say “I got an abortion today?”
to these women? A free tshirt? Exactly how are these children (I think that’s what you mean) finding out that the women going in and out had an abortion?
Boy, acting in an invisible manner sure does a lot of good!
The Pope gives a free ride to abortion because you do not happen to see him outside a clinic holding up a graphic sign?
 
KarenNC,

Are you pro-“choice”? Please answer the question. If so why do you care about what children out in the world think if you think it’s ok to rip preborn children limb from limb? You care about those already here outside the womb having “hurt feelings” but those inside “well hey it’s up to the mother to have them torn limb from limb”?

If you AREN’T pro-choice please tell us who’ve had experience and results with dead baby pictures what we can and or should do to teach/show people the absolute horror of abortion? Text doesn’t work I’ve already told you that, and that’s standing outside a clinic for over a year now.
She has answered this question before. Although she claims not to be pro-choice she says there are circumstances were abortion is acceptable.
 
Um, I was under the impression that all of us in this conversation understood that the two were equated? That abortion always and in every case ends the life of a child? Realizing that would fall under “emotional consequences,” in my book, unless you are saying that ending someone’s life has no emotional consequences for the person who made that decision?
It sounded like you were saying ‘committed’ couples, as long as they understand the emotional ‘consequences’, may well do as they please. No reference to the understanding that abortion kills human beings, which is the purpose of billboard signs.
I am very surprised that you categorize the consequences of having an abortion as “emotional discomfort.”
Nope, you did when you said: “I fully agree that anyone who is old enough to be considering sexual intercourse is old enough to be informed of all the possible consequences of such, including the potential long term physical and emotional consequences of choosing an abortion.”
I would never be so dismissive. The emotional trauma and long lasting effects of choosing to end a human life I would believe fall a bit beyond the range of “discomfort.”
But should not be the only concern. The death of the child is even more important.
One of the factors women list in reasons why they chose to have an abortion is that they were not either emotionally or financially ready to have a child.
Not financially prepared because of what, so called committed relationships? The man walked out on her when he found out she was pregnant? So much for commitment. Again, define committed relationship. Anything other than marriage comes up short.
“The reasons most frequently cited were that having a child would interfere with a woman’s education, work
or ability to care for dependents (74%); that she could not afford a baby now (73%); and that she did not want to be a
single mother or was having relationship problems (48%).”
But, what does it say about whether or not they knew full well that they were killing a human person. How many of those would not have had an abortion if they knew?
So, I am not really at all sure why I am now being lambasted for saying that in order for there to be fewer abortions, it is good to teach that the best situation is for two adults to be in a stable marriage, want to be pregnant and able to financially support a child before they get pregnant?
So you do mean marriage? It should be taught, not that it is the best situation, but rather it should be taught that unmarried people should not be having intercourse, period.
Um, maybe because it’s a good thing for people to be committed to each other before they start having sex with each other?
Commitment without marriage is a lie.
Sorry, I was under the impression that the folks in this discussion actively wanted to stop people from believing that “they can run to the abortuary if something happens.”
Can you understand sarcasm?
You list your religion as “Catholic.” If your objections above are serious, you might want to have a discussion with your priest on what the Church teaches as appropriate for sexual relations between a man and a woman. If they are not serious, I am a bit at a loss as to your point?
Again, sarcasm. It is a literal device. 😉
 
exactly how does an abortion clinic “traumatize those children on the outside by its existence?” Most clinics I have seen are basically plain office buildings. Most don’t have huge banners saying “get your abortion here!” across the outside nor are they running video billboards showing their services.
When your 3 year old daughter points to the building across the street and says “what do they do there” and you say “they kill people”.
Is this clinic giving out stickers that say “I got an abortion today?”
to these women? A free tshirt? Exactly how are these children (I think that’s what you mean) finding out that the women going in and out had an abortion?
From anyone who they ask of course.

So, as long as the abortion clinic peaceably minds its own business and doesn’t advertise that they killing people there, all is well? People are going to be killed or are being killed in there and you say we shouldn’t even hold up a sign. What if you knew your neighbor across the street was going to kill his 10 year old son today. Would you sit back in your easy chair? What would you do?
 
When your 3 year old daughter points to the building across the street and says “what do they do there” and you say “they kill people”.
Seriously?! I can’t tell if you’re joking? What kind of parent would say that to their 3 year old?? :eek:
 
Because some children might get upset some of you don’t support the most effective way of saving babies from extermination.

You have been fooled by pro-aborts like Karen, she isn’t prolife and is here to stir up trouble. But its easy for you to dismiss photos because you weren’t murdered by abortion.

We are a selfish country and until this is overcome millions of babies will be murdered each year because people will argue feelings over saving lives.
 
Because some children might get upset some of you don’t support the most effective way of saving babies from extermination.

You have been fooled by pro-aborts like Karen, she isn’t prolife and is here to stir up trouble. But its easy for you to dismiss photos because you weren’t murdered by abortion.

We are a selfish country and until this is overcome millions of babies will be murdered each year because people will argue feelings over saving lives.
I’m sorry. I’m a little slow on the uptake here. (Long night with sick child. 😦 ) Are you answering my question here? Were you joking? (Or are you addressing someone else?)
 
It sounded like you were saying ‘committed’ couples, as long as they understand the emotional ‘consequences’, may well do as they please.
Really? Interesting how you get that from:

“Would seem to me that the best way, honestly, to deter abortions is to work to prevent unintended and unwanted pregnancies in the first place as well as encouraging sexual activity only within the confines of a committed relationship between two adults who are emotionally and financially ready to accept the possible consequences of their decision to have sexual relations.”
Nope, you did when you said: “I fully agree that anyone who is old enough to be considering sexual intercourse is old enough to be informed of all the possible consequences of such, including the potential long term physical and emotional consequences of choosing an abortion.”
Funny, I don’t see anything about “discomfort” in that statement.
Not financially prepared because of what, so called committed relationships? The man walked out on her when he found out she was pregnant? So much for commitment. Again, define committed relationship.
If you are unclear on the meaning of “committed” then I suggest you refer to any one of a number of dictionaries. There are plenty online if you don’t have one to hand at home.

Anything other than marriage comes up short.

Okay, how does this square with your other statement: “People in so called legally and emotionally committed realationships also have abortions.”

Are you arguing that committed legal relationships (ie marriage) are not beneficial in lessening the likelihood that a woman will have an abortion or that we should not promote the teaching that sex is not a casual thing and marriage is not desirable because people who are married also have abortions? Do you have the statistics to back that up, because it is directly contrary to the ones that I provided from the CDC.
But, what does it say about whether or not they knew full well that they were killing a human person. How many of those would not have had an abortion if they knew?
All I can tell you is that not one woman in that study responded that she had an abortion “because it isn’t really human” or “it isn’t really a baby.” The vast majority of answers seemed to indicate that they were fully aware that this was a baby and would have a lifelong impact of responsibility for them, so I would say that that shows at least some indication that they knew this involved a human life.

I can only go by what the actual data shows, however.
Can you understand sarcasm?
I can, but it might be useful to identify it when you intend such. It’s kind of hard to tell in most of your responses, as you have indicated previously that things I would only have expected to be sarcastic were in fact meant absolutely literally.
 
So, as long as the abortion clinic peaceably minds its own business and doesn’t advertise that they killing people there, all is well?
Reading what is actually written is an evidently neglected skill.
 
"Ani Ibi:
What would you call 45 000 000
and counting if not indundation?
The context for those deaths is that they are morally illicit. To have an abortion or to engage in remote material collaboration with an abortion is a mortal sin. That is the context.

So, without even applying the Principle of Double Effect, one can simply weigh

45 000 000

(and counting) abortions against the reluctance and unpreparedness of parents to have that talk with their children who have seen posters of aborted fetuses. However, applying the PDE sets the issues out clearly in balance.

It is a question of proportion. It is a question of dealing with real life and death and of teaching one’s children to deal with same in age-appropriate language – rather than teaching children that they can ignore with impugnity what they might find disturbing.

Life is not a rose garden. Children should not be taught that it is a rose garden. Children who are ‘damaged’ by watching violent tv are children who have no

context

with which to understand that violence. That lack of context exists because parents do not take the time to discuss with the children what is appearing on tv screens. TV violence is too often used as a free babysitting service.

If you want to censor abortion posters, then why not censor media programs on famine, homelessness, war, disasters, sickness, and so on. That way, children will not be ‘damaged’ by any disturbing images. And therefore they will also never learn how to deal with these facts of life.

And therefore they will take their values from their parents: ignore what disturbs you.

And therefore remedies for famine, homelessness, war, disasters, sickness, and so on will disappear from our culture.

What you can’t see can’t hurt you, can it?
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So, as long as the abortion clinic peaceably minds its own business and doesn’t advertise that they killing people there, all is well?
If what we can’t see can’t hurt us, then let’s solve the problem of evil by making sure it all happens behind closed doors. To other people.

There is something wrong with this reasoning. Folks who don’t want to see things, don’t see them. Folks who do not have the emotional strength to see things, don’t see them. What is being recommended here is that nobody should see them whether they are willing, strong, or anything else. That is

disproportionate.

Pius 12 constantly had the Nazi atrocities in the public eye. by means of radio announcements, encyclicals, newspaper articles, 70 000 flyers dropped from airplanes over France, notes passed by hand, word of mouth, and so on. Yet many people will say that they had no notion of what was happening until Shirer released his book in the mid 50’s!

In a high-crime neighbourhood in Toronto, the mothers found that if they just showed up in the drug-trafficking areas with their knitting, the drug-trafficking stopped in that area. Why? Because people were watching.
 
KarenNC,

Am I understanding your position correctly? From what I gather:
  • you are totally opposed to the ‘inundation’ approach of using graphic abortion images publicly because children under the age of 8 (for sake of argument) may become traumatized from viewing such images.
  • You are not opposed to using graphic abortion images in a targeted campaign (outside abortuaries, on the high school side of a neighborhood or college campus - not the elementary school side, outside judicial buildings where a debate about abortion ‘rights’ would be taking place, outside medical facilities which promote abortion etc.).
 
Because some children might get upset some of you don’t support the most effective way of saving babies from extermination.
Again with the claim but again never with the supporting evidence that this is indeed “the most effective way” to do anything. Is there anything other than anecdotes and your own “feelings” that support your claim that displaying graphic images of mutilated bloody dead babies in places where you know they are likely to be seen by preschoolers is measurably more effective than any other prolife strategy or even as effective?
You have been fooled by pro-aborts like Karen, she isn’t prolife and is here to stir up trouble.
Actually I consider myself pro-sanity, thanks.

You really are overusing the ad hominem attacks. You do realize that they are logical fallacies and a way of simply attempting to divert attention from the weakness of your own argument, reduce the other person to a label or stereotype rather than a human being and avoid actually dealing with the specifics of the other person’s statement, don’t you? This particular one is called “ad hominem abusive.”

It would at least be better if you were bothering to attack me on the basis of something that I actually said or believed and therefore had some connection with reality.
But its easy for you to dismiss photos because you weren’t murdered by abortion.
Well, I do have to grant that there aren’t a lot of people who were aborted participating in this discussion. Now as to whether anyone is “dismissing” these photos is another claim altogether and one, as far as I can see, that is baseless.
 
KarenNC,

Am I understanding your position correctly? From what I gather:
  • you are totally opposed to the ‘inundation’ approach of using graphic abortion images publicly because children under the age of 8 (for sake of argument) may become traumatized from viewing such images.
  • You are not opposed to using graphic abortion images in a targeted campaign (outside abortuaries, on the high school side of a neighborhood or college campus - not the elementary school side, outside judicial buildings where a debate about abortion ‘rights’ would be taking place, outside medical facilities which promote abortion etc.).
Pretty much on target, yes, though I would reword the first point a bit. It is not just that young children may become traumatized, but that, as a culture, we have very widely demonstrated cultural norms of recognizing that young children should be actively protected from exposure to graphic scenes of violence as much as is possible. Also that there are evidently no objective measures demonstrating that showing these images in this way is any more effective than or even as effective as any other method that does not ignore those norms at preventing abortion.

Also, I have raised absolutely no objection to any parent who wishes to do so using these images with their own children as young as they wish.
 
The context for those deaths is that they are morally illicit. To have an abortion or to engage in remote material collaboration with an abortion is a mortal sin. That is the context.
Okay. Don’t see anyone in this discussion who is having an abortion. An example of “engaging in remote material collaboration with abortion”?
It is a question of proportion. It is a question of dealing with real life and death and of teaching one’s children to deal with same in age-appropriate language – rather than teaching children that they can ignore with impugnity what they might find disturbing.

Life is not a rose garden. Children should not be taught that it is a rose garden. Children who are ‘damaged’ by watching violent tv are children who have no context with which to understand that violence.
Couple key words here. “Age appropriate” and “context.” How is flying a plane towing an image of a bloody mutilated pile of dismembered parts of babies across a city sky providing “context” in an “age appropriate” way?
That lack of context exists because parents do not take the time to discuss with the children what is appearing on tv screens. TV violence is too often used as a free babysitting service.

If you want to censor abortion posters, then why not censor media programs on famine, homelessness, war, disasters, sickness, and so on. That way, children will not be ‘damaged’ by any disturbing images.
Our society does indeed “censor” these media programs by applying ratings to them, placing descriptions of them in tv guides listing when and where they will be shown, not showing them in breaks between children’s programming, requiring an act of will on the part of the parent to invite these images into his or her home for the viewing of his or her child.
And therefore they will also never learn how to deal with these facts of life.
There is a vast difference between a parent taking a 3 year old child into the shallow end of the pool to start to teach them how to swim and a stranger dumping the same child in the deep end of the shark pool at the aquarium with the same goal.

Swimming is a good skill and can save lives. Sharks exist and it is good to know to avoid them in order to save lives. It is not the content of the message but the method that I question.
And therefore they will take their values from their parents: ignore what disturbs you.
I have seen the photos. I have actively looked at and for the photos in the course of this very discussion. I have never once in this discussion referred to these images as anything other than as photos of dead, bloody, mutilated, dismembered human babies. In what way am I ignoring what disturbs me or advocating that anyone considering an abortion should not be “disturbed” by what they are about to do?

Yes, murder and death disturb me and thank all that’s holy for that. Lots of things disturb me. I don’t need to rub a three year old’s face in photographs of them to prove that.

I hope what my child learns from me is a sense of perspective and respect for other human beings no matter what their age and that the ends do not justify any and every means.
And therefore remedies for famine, homelessness, war, disasters, sickness, and so on will disappear from our culture.
All of this will disappear from our culture if we don’t show graphic bloody pictures of them to 3 year olds?
There is something wrong with this reasoning. Folks who don’t want to see things, don’t see them. Folks who do not have the emotional strength to see things, don’t see them.
Then why will blazing them through the sky do any good?
What is being recommended here is that nobody should see them whether they are willing, strong, or anything else. That is disproportionate.
Recommended by whom, exactly?
In a high-crime neighbourhood in Toronto, the mothers found that if they just showed up in the drug-trafficking areas with their knitting, the drug-trafficking stopped in that area. Why? Because people were watching.
People were watching them knitting and it had the desired effect. I have no objection to preschoolers seeing someone knitting.
 
We are a selfish country and until this is overcome millions of babies will be murdered each year because people will argue feelings over saving lives.
Millions of babies murdered each year in the US by abortion? Where in the world do you get your statistics?

cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/ss5511a1.htm#fig1

The year in which the largest number of abortions were performed in this country was in 1990, when the number was below 1.4 million and has been declining ever since. The abortion rate peaked in 1984 and has also been declining. The CDC reports"

“A total of 848,163 legal induced abortions were reported to CDC for 2003 from 49 reporting areas, representing a 0.7% decline from the 854,122 legal induced abortions reported by 49 reporting areas for 2002. The abortion ratio, defined as the number of abortions per 1,000 live births, was 241 in 2003, a decrease from the 246 in 2002. The abortion rate was 16 per 1,000 women aged 15–44 years for 2003, the same as for 2002. For the same 47 reporting areas, the abortion rate remained relatively constant during 1998–2003…During 1990–1997, the number of legal induced abortions gradually declined. When the same 47 reporting areas are compared, the number of abortions decreased during 1996–2001, then slightly increased in 2002 and again decreased in 2003. In 2000 and 2001, even with one additional reporting state, the number of abortions declined slightly, with a minimal increase in 2002 and a further decrease in 2003.”

This is not to claim that over 800,000 abortions a year is something to be desired, but neither overstating the extent of the situation nor misrepresenting the trends indicated by the data is not helpful to either your cause or your credibility. The actual numbers are indicative enough of the problem without inflating them.
 
Several states DO NOT report their abortion numbers, no law requires them to!

All abortion numbers are derived from pro-abortion sources courtesy of The Alan Guttmacher Institute and Planned Parenthood’s Family Planning Perspectives.
WORLDWIDE

Number of abortions per year: Approximately 46 Million
Number of abortions per day: Approximately 126,000

Where abortions occur:
78% of all abortions are obtained in developing countries and 22% occur in developed countries.

Legality of abortion:
About 26 million women obtain legal abortions each year, while an additional 20 million abortions are obtained in countries where it is restricted or prohibited by law.

Abortion averages:
Worldwide, the lifetime average is about 1 abortion per woman.

© Copyright 1999-2000, The Alan Guttmacher Institute. (www.agi-usa.org)

UNITED STATES

Number of abortions per year: 1.37 Million (1996)
Number of abortions per day: Approximately 3,700

Who’s having abortions (age)?
52% of women obtaining abortions in the U.S. are younger than 25: Women aged 20-24 obtain 32% of all abortions; Teenagers obtain 20% and girls under 15 account for 1.2%.

Who’s having abortions (race)?
While white women obtain 60% of all abortions, their abortion rate is well below that of minority women. Black women are more than 3 times as likely as white women to have an abortion, and Hispanic women are roughly 2 times as likely.

Who’s having abortions (marital status)?
64.4% of all abortions are performed on never-married women; Married women account for 18.4% of all abortions and divorced women obtain 9.4%.

Who’s having abortions (religion)?
Women identifying themselves as Protestants obtain 37.4% of all abortions in the U.S.; Catholic women account for 31.3%, Jewish women account for 1.3%, and women with no religious affiliation obtain 23.7% of all abortions. 18% of all abortions are performed on women who identify themselves as “Born-again/Evangelical”.

Who’s having abortions (income)?
Women with family incomes less than $15,000 obtain 28.7% of all abortions; Women with family incomes between $15,000 and $29,999 obtain 19.5%; Women with family incomes between $30,000 and $59,999 obtain 38.0%; Women with family incomes over $60,000 obtain 13.8%.

Why women have abortions
1% of all abortions occur because of rape or incest; 6% of abortions occur because of potential health problems regarding either the mother or child, and 93% of all abortions occur for social reasons (i.e. the child is unwanted or inconvenient).

At what gestational ages are abortions performed:
52% of all abortions occur before the 9th week of pregnancy, 25% happen between the 9th & 10th week, 12% happen between the 11th and 12th week, 6% happen between the 13th & 15th week, 4% happen between the 16th & 20th week, and 1% of all abortions (16,450/yr.) happen after the 20th week of pregnancy.

Likelihood of abortion:
An estimated 43% of all women will have at least 1 abortion by the time they are 45 years old. 47% of all abortions are performed on women who have had at least one previous abortion.

Abortion coverage:
48% of all abortion facilities provide services after the 12th week of pregnancy. 9 in 10 managed care plans routinely cover abortion or provide limited coverage. About 14% of all abortions in the United States are paid for with public funds, virtually all of which are state funds. 16 states (CA, CT, HI, ED, IL, MA , MD, MD, MN, MT, NJ, NM, NY, OR, VT, WA and WV) pay for abortions for some poor women.
 
Pretty much on target, yes, though I would reword the first point a bit. It is not just that young children may become traumatized, but that, as a culture, we have very widely demonstrated cultural norms of recognizing that young children should be actively protected from exposure to graphic scenes of violence as much as is possible. Also that there are evidently no objective measures demonstrating that showing these images in this way is any more effective than or even as effective as any other method that does not ignore those norms at preventing abortion.

Also, I have raised absolutely no objection to any parent who wishes to do so using these images with their own children as young as they wish.
Ok, thanks. I should think we’d all agree that that young children should be actively protected from scenes of violence as much as possible.

The semi-trailer driving by, to me, would not go against that guideline. It would be a random hit-or-miss exposure to the graphic image.

The billboards are something parents can drive around to avoid when their little ones are in the car.

The picket signs are another thing parents can drive around to avoid when little ones are in the car.

As a diligent parent driving a vehicle we tend to look several hundred feet ahead and around. A little child in a carseat is watching cartoons on the DVD in front of them these days, sleeping, drinking a sippy cup or eating a snack, or just looking randomly around, perhaps focusing on a speck of dust floating before them from the air conditioning. I suspect that even if the child’s face was looking right at the side of that semi his focus would be on the tire tread or nuts holding the wheels on (shiny) than on the bigger picture of the aborted fetus.

I really do believe a child under 8 is not going to see what we adults see (recognition, that is) even when side by side we’re facing the same object. Children’s curiosity notice the little things that move around and glisten or make a sound. We parents take everything thing in from a perspective of protecting our children. We know it’s an aborted fetus. A young child probably just sees a blob of color.

This is why it is important not to react noticeably whenever we see ‘bad things’ in front of our young children. We should check first, to see if our children are taking in the same images we noticed. If they didn’t then best not to say anything but move along, taking a sigh of relief. If they did, then how we respond to that child to help them make sense of what they saw and how not to let it bother them determines the level of trauma they experience. Most times, we parents can distract a child’s fear or concern without having to go into details. If we panic, they’ll be scarred. If we remain calm, they will feel secure. The event can pass uneventfully if we parents handle the situation properly.

Certainly I agree we should not take our little ones into the battlefield knowingly. If at all possible to avoid our child’s eyes setting sight of these images, we should do what it takes to do so, but when it is not possible, as with the semis and protesters we have not advanced warning about or control over, then diligent responses to the situation are warranted and make all the difference between a traumatic or uneventful influence on the child.

I would not advocate prohibiting others to use the images in their efforts to get the truth out just because children under 8 ‘might’ be exposed to them.

I would support placing guidelines on people distributing images to make sure they have a targeted market and limit them to that market (as in the case of protesting in front of an abortuary as opposed to protesting in front of a supermarket).

The thing is, too many people in our society honestly believe abortion is a matter of removing body tissue belonging to a mother, similar to removing a cyst or small tumor. They’ve been lied to with words to such an extent that they’ve bought into it. Words contrary to those are not sinking in. They believe we are making the descriptions up. Pictures are more powerful and undeniable. We have reached the point in this society that we cannot afford to let the truth be suppressed any longer. How we let the images circulate is something worth discussing and compromising on, but suggesting images be banned from use altogether is not an option. I don’t think that’s what you’re suggesting though.
 
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