Likewise I haven’t found much. However a short warning. Our Lord had dinners with the tax-collectors of his time (they were the presence of evil, very vicious). Through very odd circumstances, and over a number of years I have met homosexuals and couples of that sort and frankly I leave it to God to judge, not I. In fact I believe His Grace differs from our filters. As far as being real-catholic, I don’t see many families with parents in their 40/50s and 8 children anymore (I think one in my local parish), so judge those using contraceptives (outside of the rhythm-method, and good luck with that) as you do those with gay-tendencies. While at it remember our church thought biblically speaking the earth was the center of ‘space’, and almost put a magnificent man to death for declaring ‘No, we revolve around the sun’. Did it not also support slavery? Do I really need to say anymore. Why do I defend the gay members of our church? Well I was stranded in a community not to long ago, and they reached out to me…once a very religious-right individual. So I wish upon you to be stranded and see the love of Christ from those you thought anathema, as our Church unfortunately so declares of to many people, sects, etc.
I love our Church but see it has faults too, and unfortunately reconciles them way tooooo late. Like John Paul II apologizing for the WWII ridiculousness we did pertaining to Jews, we ignored them and more.
I once was as you, by finding my new found faith, very self-righteous… Peace.