Franciscans of Life become independent community

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I’m not sure if this goes here or not. However, since I have one or two friends in Tradom, I wanted to share good news and not so good news.

First the good news:

My community, Fratres Franciscani Vitae (Franciscan Brothers of Life, a community of men that began with three Franciscans is growing and received the blessing of the Archbishop of Miami to exercise its ministry in that diocese, open houses, continue receiving vocations, form more brothers and receive the profession of vows in the name of the Church. We are now an autonomous institute.

The Brothers of Life, as we are affectionately called, are the voice of Christ to those who need to hear his voice and the voice of the voiceless (unborn, immigrant poor, chronically and terminally ill, elderly and people with disabilities). The brothers serve in crisis pregnancy centers as counselors and educators. We started Project Joseph, an education program for fathers contemplating abortion and we work with about 30 fathers per month. Our brothers work at a Catholic hospital as chaplains, where they educate doctors, nurses, patients and their families on the right to life of every human being, especially the terminally ill. They spend the nights in prayer with relatives and patients waiting for God to call the patient home.

The brothers also serve the immigrant poor, providing them with material assistance: clothing, furniture, food, medication, medical care, dental care and transportation. We evangelize through unconditional love and mercy. As our Holy Father Francis, we let our walking do our talking. You’d be surprised at the number of questions that people have after they get to know the brothers.

The unborn get special attention from us. We “adopt” every preborn child. During the pregnancy, the brothers pray for the child and the parents who are debating whether or not to keep the child. We offer to stay with the child until the age of two. We provide medical care, food, clothing, baby supplies, baby furniture and parenting classes for moms and dads where they can earn parent dollars to buy these things for their babies. We are there 24/7 when a parent wants us. Along with protecting the life of the unborn, the other most important mission of the brothers is to educate parents on the meaning of family and marriage.

The elderly also get their share of attention. One of our brothers is especially good with the little old ladies. They love him to death, whether he’s taking Holy Communion to them or scrubbing their floor. We make it a special point to ensure that every older person whom we know gets a visit from one of his or her adopted sons (brothers). We know that the elderly have a special place in God’s heart and in his plan of salvation. Were not Sara, Abraham, Elizabeth and Zechariah elderly? Where would we be without them? The elderly are essential to man’s salvation. The Mother of God herself rushed to the side of her elderly cousin in her time of need.

Then, there are those very special people with developmental disabilities. People with disabilities have a very special place in Jesus’ Sacred Heart. Through the person with developmental disabilities, Christ taught us about mercy and forgiveness. “That you may know that the Son of Man has the power to forgive sins, I say to you, ‘Take up your bed and walk’.” Christ revealed the glory and mercy of God through the disabled. We bring Christ’s mercy to them, as our Holy Father Francis did to the lepers and the sick people of Assisi. We hope that we can bring them back to Christ through our gift of self.

The brothers not only work. Our life is about prayer, Eucharist, penance, poverty, brotherhood with each other, devotion to the Blessed Mother. She is the virgin made church. Above all, we vow unquestioning obedience to the Church as practiced by our Holy Father. We renew the Church from within, not as her judge, but as her servants. We open our fraternity to secular men who wish to share in the life and charism of the brothers, while remaining in their homes. They are not subservient or an appendage to the fraternity. They are truly our brothers with equal rights and equal obligations to live the Gospel and to preach it through every gesture and every contact with the voiceless. They are to be the advocates of the voiceless, within the Church and society. They make the voiceless Christ heard. Who is the voiceless Christ? He is the one who says, “I was a stranger and you welcomed me.”

The motto of the Franciscans of Life is “Vitam ad vitam vocat”

Now that not so good news:

Yours truly has been selected to be the Superior General. I have chosen a motto for my seal. **“Deus eligit stultus” (God chooses the fool). ** I ask for your prayers that I may serve my brothers as a mother cares for her newborn child, with tenderness, compassion, understanding, infinite love and patience and above all, obedient to the Father’s will for them, as Joseph and Mary were obedient to His will for their son.

The brothers know that my health is poor and that I’m living on borrowed time. I asked not be named Superior General; but God always has other plans. Pray for me, that I will suffer what I have to suffer for the sanctification of my brothers, the strengthening of their resolve to follow the poor and crucified Christ, and their fidelity to the Church. That is all that I can do for them. May God have mercy on my soul, for I am now responsible for the souls of others who are my sons and brothers.

I told the Lord, “You put me into this situation. I have no idea what I’m doing. You could have chosen someone healthier and more intelligent. What were you thinking? Well Lord, it doesn’t matter now. You’ve done it. Now you have to walk with me through the night and be my light.”

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
What wonderful news!!! 😃

You and your Brothers will be in my thoughts & prayers!

Peace to you & blessings for a prayerful Triduum!
 
Pray for me, that I will suffer what I have to suffer for the sanctification of my brothers, the strengthening of their resolve to follow the poor and crucified Christ, and their fidelity to the Church. That is all that I can do for them. May God have mercy on my soul, for I am now responsible for the souls of others who are my sons and
Br. Jr,

The Lord put the desire in you heart.

He’s been with you every step of the way.

He will carry you when you falter and he will give you wisdom when you need it.

Most of all, he will use your weaknesses to strengthen your brethren.

We’ll keep you and your brothers in prayer.
 
Pray that God will send more workers to the vineyard. We have a steady stream of vocations, but the work can certainly take more brothers, religious and secular.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Pray that God will send more workers to the vineyard. We have a steady stream of vocations, but the work can certainly take more brothers, religious and secular.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
Please send me information. I am trying to discern my call to religious life.
 
Pray that God will send more workers to the vineyard. We have a steady stream of vocations, but the work can certainly take more brothers, religious and secular.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
I was driving my son back from a diocesan dinner for high school students that are considering the priesthood. He said that he is thinking more and more about consecrated life and so I started to talk to him about you. Now I am going to call him an let him read these great news.
 
Prayers for you Br. JR, and your Brothers. May you accomplish the work God has set before your feet. :gopray2:
 
Brother, this is great news for your community and all those you serve. You have my continued prayers for your health and success in such an important apostolate.

By the way, when I saw at first that there was “not so good news,” that you had gone “independent,” and that it was “of interest to Traddom,” for a second there I was worried you guys just up and went schismatic! 😃
 
I’m not sure if this goes here or not. However, since I have one or two friends in Tradom, I wanted to share good news and not so good news
I am not a member of Tradom, but wanted to congratulate you on both pieces of news. Surely, this is an overdue outcome for the Brothers of Life. And they are blessed to have you as their Superior General. I will certainly pray for you, and your brothers.
 
Brother JR,

You have been incredibly influential in so many ways to people here, and I include myself among them. It is thanks to your guidance and wisdom that I know God is calling me to the Dominican Order, and for this you have my eternal thanks. The Lord has worked through you to do many things, and I have no doubt that you will be an excellent father to these young men, and give them the same wisdom you have shared with us here.

I truly cannot express enough the joy I have at this news of your community becoming an independent community.

You have my prayers, and you have my support. If you need IT assistance (Server/Systems Administration, design work) please let me know.

And of course, you have the constant prayers of the Order of Preachers.

Holy Fathers Dominic & Francis, pray for our Brother JR, and intercede for him and the newly independent Brothers of Life.
 
First of all congrats on the status of your community and your new position. I know that is not something you would have sought, but it is well deserved nonetheless. God called you, and God will give you the strength to bear your burden for the sake of your work and the souls of your brothers.

May God bless you and your brothers in your ministry going forward.

Peace of Christ!
 
Please send me information. I am trying to discern my call to religious life.
I was driving my son back from a diocesan dinner for high school students that are considering the priesthood. He said that he is thinking more and more about consecrated life and so I started to talk to him about you. Now I am going to call him an let him read these great news.
Just click on my signature and it will take you to our homepage. Now we have to update it. One more little thing for after Easter. I have all of these little things that I have put off until after Easter. I’m not looking forward for Easter to be over. Now I have a list that’s getting longer. LOL

Hmmm, can we extend this a little longer? 😃
Brother, this is great news for your community and all those you serve. You have my continued prayers for your health and success in such an important apostolate.
Thanks Mark.
By the way, when I saw at first that there was “not so good news,” that you had gone “independent,” and that it was “of interest to Traddom,” for a second there I was worried you guys just up and went schismatic! 😃
Noooooooooooo – I may be losing my hair, but not my mind - - not yet. We’re as Catholic and as Franciscan as they come. That’s how this began. A few of us were sent here to start a more traditional Franciscan community. By more traditional we mean, simpler life, less clerical and more apostolic, more fraternal, and back to the old days of unquestioning obedience to the Church. We actually follow the constitutions of 1221, which says

**“Brother Francis promises unquestioning obedience to the Lord Pope and the brothers are bound, under penalty of excommunication, to observe everything that I, Brother Francis and my canonically elected successors command and that which the Lord Pope and Bishop command through us.”
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Not a very schismatic statement. Nahhhhhhhh
I am not a member of Tradom, but wanted to congratulate you on both pieces of news. Surely, this is an overdue outcome for the Brothers of Life. And they are blessed to have you as their Superior General. I will certainly pray for you, and your brothers.
Thanks for the good wishes and prayers. Don’t worry about not being a member of Tradom. We’re not an Ecclesia Dei community. We’re just Catholic. Our patrons are the Immaculate and St. Maximilian Kolbe. The Immaculate, because she has been the patroness of the Franciscan family since 1209, even when everyone was arguing about the Immaculate Conception. St. Maximilian Kolbe, because he’s the patron of Pro-Life work and a brother Franciscan.

Soon, we’re going to be changing our initials from OSF (Order of St. Francis) to FFV (Fratres Franciscani Vitae). Don’t be surprised when you folks see it after my name.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Soon, we’re going to be changing our initials from OSF (Order of St. Francis) to FFV (Fratres Franciscani Vitae). Don’t be surprised when you folks see it after my name.
I must selfishly ask; does this mean we will continue to see you post here upon reception of your new position as Superior General? I know the laptop you own is not your own, you are assigned it.
 
First I congratulate your congregation being independent 🙂
Second, since you said it was a not-so-good news, I will just offer my prayer that you may receive strength to carry your responsibility. Suffering indeed is a mystery 😃

I always like reading your take regarding Franciscan spirituality, and in fact, you made me want to be a Franciscan at one point!
At least now I got better understanding regarding Franciscan spirituality, and that very much enrich my spiritual life.

May God bless us all, Brother.

BTW, by being independent, are your community still under Franciscan obedience (I mean structurally)?
I just interested to know regarding these things, how it work when new congregation formed and how it “affiliate” with the mother Order (although you explained before that in the Franciscan family there is no affiliation but obedience, although I still not really grasp the difference. Sorry Brother Jay 😊).
 
Brother JR,

You have been incredibly influential in so many ways to people here, and I include myself among them. It is thanks to your guidance and wisdom that I know God is calling me to the Dominican Order, and for this you have my eternal thanks.
Thank you. We must always remember to give thanks to God who calls us and to our Holy Father Dominic for his outstanding witness. He is a model of fidelity to truth, contemplation and kindness. If ever there was a humble man, Dominic is it.

I will never forget how he approached Pope Innocent with his rule for his Brother Preachers and was told, “No new rules.” He humbly accepted the Rule of St. Augustine. Eight months later, Francis arrives on the scene with his rule and Pope Innocent gives it his blessing. Dominic was filled with so much joy that he wrote into the Dominican’s constitution that they should always honor, protect and love the Franciscans.

Francis was a layman, while Dominic was a priest and a scholar. Francis was a kid and Dominic was a man of vast experience. Such humility is rare.

You have chosen well, my dear friend. Dominic will be an excellent teacher for you. Keep your eyes on his kindness. Remember, what makes the Order of Preachers true brothers, is not their knowledge, but their love. It is easy to learn, it is difficult to love.
First of all congrats on the status of your community and your new position. I know that is not something you would have sought, but it is well deserved nonetheless. God called you, and God will give you the strength to bear your burden for the sake of your work and the souls of your brothers.

May God bless you and your brothers in your ministry going forward.

Peace of Christ!
I prayed that I would live to see the community become independent. As one of the founders, I am delighted that the day has arrived. There is a great deal ahead of us. We’re small and we have to prove ourselves to the Church before we’re given pontifical status. I don’t expect to be around for that. It takes years. That’s fine. All in God’s good time.

I have to admit that when the Vicar for Religious came in and said, “You’re the superior general” I just put my head on the desk in her office and shook and cried. It is not what I wanted, nor what I believed that my brothers deserved. I am not a leader. I’ll be the first to admit that. I have been an administrator and can do that well. But to lead others to God is a whole other story.

I remembered something that Francis said to Pope Innocent. When the order was at the same stage as our community is now, in its infancy, Pope Innocent had misgivings about many things. Francis said to the Holy Father, “I am the mother of many children whose father is the Great King. I only ask that the King’s Bride (the Church) help me to feed my children, because I cannot do it alone.” Pope Innocent blessed the young community and 14 years later Pope Honorius would give it pontifical status.

I’ve always been impressed by those words. Francis laid it out so well. The superior is a mother. Good mothers feed, protect, guide, nurture, encourage, correct, and they quietly watch their sons grow to maturity without getting in their way. I believe that may be the reason that Francis prohibited Abbots and Priors. Those are very paternal figures. He wanted his successors to take their cue from Mary, the Mother of the Lord.

I truly believe that the problems that many religious communities are facing is because they have lost sight of Mary. Mary has all the qualities of the perfect superior.

She is the obedient daughter of the Father. The loving mother of the Son. And the faithful spouse of the Holy Spirit. She is the living proof that we are called to live in relationship with the Trinity and that it is possible.

I pray that I will learn from her as did St. Francis.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Though I don’t as post as much as I could, I always seek out your posts for their sincerity,compassion and insight. I think I speak for most of CAF when I say that what you’ve said and typed on here has impacted us all greatly.

And, of course you’re a leader! Heck, I would call you a leader of the forum here. Your posts usually bring calm and enlightenment and help us all understand our Catholic faith better.

Congratulations and I’ll make sure to keep praying for you!​

Holy Martyrs of Vietnam and Our Lady of Czestochowa, pray for Brother JR!
 
I must selfishly ask; does this mean we will continue to see you post here upon reception of your new position as Superior General? I know the laptop you own is not your own, you are assigned it.
I don’t know the answer to that question yet. I have to gauge what my health will realistically allow me to do. I get very tired easily and fade out quickly. Normally, I pray a lot. 🤷
Suffering indeed is a mystery 😃
That is so true.
BTW, by being independent, are your community still under Franciscan obedience (I mean structurally)?
Every Franciscan community has its own canonically elected superior general. The large communities are broken down into provinces. They have regional superiors who answer to the superior general. The communities certainly work in a fraternal relationship with each other. They don’t compete. The superiors meet often. The breakdown is really because of numbers.

There are about 1.7 million Franciscan men and women in the world. There are so many diverse gifts and so many needs in the different parts of the world, that it would be impossible for any one person to oversee the whole family. Even before Francis died, it was already beginning to subdivide.

Francis wrote three rules, one for each of his orders. As each of the orders grew, it subdivided according to needs and according to interpretations of the these rules. There were many things that Francis did not address in these three rules, because he did not foresee them. That’s where the divisions came in. One group would look at something and call it blue, another called it turquoise, another called it purple. It was better to group the men and women by “colors” if you will.

The three rules remain the same. Each community is bound to one of the three. They’re almost identical. The differences that Francis wrote into them were very slight. One focuses more on obedience, the other on poverty and the other on penance. They all speak about obedience, poverty and penance.

In that regard, Franciscans are interconnected, because the rules of St. Francis cannot be changed. The only thing that each group can do is to insert what is missing. There lays the difference between let’s say the Capuchin Franciscans and the Observant Franciscans, etc.

Franciscans are very strange animals. Our affiliation is around the founder. It’s all about obedience to this man whom we call our father and our teacher. He is the man who teaches us how to love Christ and how to follow Christ, which is our greatest desire in life.

Other communities are united by their apostolic work, not so in the case of Franciscans, Missionaries of Charity and Benedictines. These communities are very tuned into their founders: Benedict, Francis, and Mother Teresa. I guess that if I had to explain what unites the entire Franciscan family, I would have to say that it’s not government, it’s tradition. There is definitely a Franciscan tradition, which you can feel when you encounter Franciscans. You can move from the Capuchins to the Poor Clares to the Secular Franciscans and you will find different things happening, but that flavor that is uniquely Franciscan is common to all of them.

What is that flavor? It’s obedience, above all things. Poverty, prayer, fraternity, penance and joy. Franciscans are not pouty penitents. We abhor intense zeal. Francis was not cut out of that bolt of cloth and neither are his followers. On the contrary, Francis was very casual, a lot of fun, and a man who could cry for his sins one moment and laugh at the ridiculous the next. He took God very seriously, but never himself. I think that’s very common to Franciscans. We take God very seriously, but not ourselves or what we do or how we do it. We just go about doing our best and God will come after us and tidy up the loose ends. 🤷

That’s our bond and probably what attracts so many men and women to the Franciscan family, making it the largest in the Church. Community by community, they are small compared to the mighty Salesians and Jesuits. But together, there are enough of us to build a small country.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Brother JR, Congratulations on the good news for your community and on your new position. Please be assured of my prayers for you and the community. You will be especially remembered in my next rosary.
 
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