Free Will & Grace

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Parents/guardians act on behalf of the best interests of a vulnerable soul in their care regarding Holy Baptism. However, every soul that is baptized in their infancy gets the liberty to complete this grace by willing to be confirmed or to reject it by choosing against Confirmation.
 
The parents didn’t just “choose what was best for the child”; they chose what we would expect any person would choose , given that their wills and intellects hadn’t been damaged by sin. Given that an infant hasn’t been damaged by personal sin, then, a parent’s choice for baptism is really just a proxy for what we believe the child would choose – if he were able to express that choice!
Not sure where you are going with this. From my understanding the baby is Baptized on the faith of the parents. This was explained to me based on verses such as…

Luke 5:17. One day as Jesus was teaching, Pharisees and teachers of the law were sitting there who had come from every village of Galilee and Judea and Jerusalem, and the power of the Lord was with him for healing. 18 And some men brought on a stretcher a man who was paralyzed; they were trying to bring him in and set [him] in his presence. 19 But not finding a way to bring him in because of the crowd, they went up on the roof and lowered him on the stretcher through the tiles into the middle in front of Jesus. 20 When he saw their faith, he said, “As for you, your sins are forgiven.”

Jesus healed the man because of their faith, the men who brought the paralytic to Jesus.

I’ve never heard anyone claim as a parent we are just a proxy for what the child would choose if he could choose. Something just seems a bit off with this statement. How are you coming to this conclusion?

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the baby is Baptized on the faith of the parents
This is true, as well… But, in the context of the present discussion, it does not imply that “on the faith of the parents” is at odds with what we would expect a child to want, in such a way that we’d assert that the child’s free will is being thwarted.
 
This is true, as well… But, in the context of the present discussion, it does not imply that “on the faith of the parents” is at odds with what we would expect a child to want, in such a way that we’d assert that the child’s free will is being thwarted.
Still not following you on this point. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying what you are saying is wrong, I just can’t wrap my head around me as a parent even bringing the thought into my mind that this is what I should expect my child to want. As a parent I believe I should do what’s best for my children, regardless of what they want.

As a follower of Christ I believe what Christ wants, not the child, is all that is important when it comes to Baptism.

Matthew 19:14
14 but Jesus said, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them; for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”

God Bless
 
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