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Gender theory ‘creates serious problems,’ says priest
One of civilization’s pillars, the objective recognition of sexual difference, is collapsing, a priest psychoanalyst warned the Catholic Organization for Life and Family (COLF) annual seminar here March 22-23.
Gender theory, an ideology which developed in the 1950s, has redefined sexuality, moving it away from objective sexual differences to subjective notions based on sexual orientation, said
Msgr. Tony Anatrella, a Paris psychoanalyst and specialist in social psychiatry.
This theory, which has gained dominance especially among feminists and homosexuals, argues biological sex is not a determinant, but that one’s gender is a social construct, he said. “This creates serious problems.”
Among those problems: a rise in suicide rates even among children, increasing narcissism that keeps adults trapped in infantile forms of sexuality such as masturbation, rising rates of homosexuality, and the inability of young people to form permanent male-female bonds that children need for their healthy psychological development, he said.
“We need a social revolution,” he told about 110 people from across the country. They had gathered for the seminar on the theme “Men and Women, Spouses and Parents: Forming Christian Citizens.”
We need to confront people with the truth even if it means getting into a fight, he said, urging participants not to be deterred by taunts of “homophobia.”
We face a pre-Christian mentality, and must evangelize and humanize the whole of society. We are forced to start anew from the fundamentals, he said.
In Western countries we must stop being afraid to speak up against trends that are oversimplifying things and leaving young people lost. We must create a Christian social fabric that is alive and expanding and provides a model for others.
The origin of the relationship between men and women predates society and does not issue primarily from religion, but from anthropology, Msgr. Anatrella said. Men and women experience a sexual otherness and complementarity that is based in reality.
Christianity provides the fullest recognition of the reality of sexual complementarity based on human anthropology, he said, noting the New Testament begins with the story of a couple, Mary and Joseph, just as Genesis begins with Adam and Eve. The future depends on men and women becoming couples in a lifelong marriage, he said.
The problem with young people is they do not know how to be couples, he said. They know how to seduce each other and to build a relationship in a weekend, but not how to build their union into a lifelong relationship. Many divorce after 10 years.
Gender theory has dehumanized the sexes, dehumanized the embryo, and dehumanized fecundity, he said.
Consequences can be noted even on a biological level. Sperm have lost 50 per cent of their fertility because of chemicals from birth control pills that have found their way into the food chain and water supply, even altering the sexual characteristics of fish, he said.
On a psychological level, psychic life and the development of a proper relationship with external objective reality requires an integration of the objective fact of our biological sex as male or female, he said.
The marriage of a man and a woman allows a child to discover the meaning of objective truth outside his or her self, Msgr. Anatrella said. When we do not have objective reality, only the notion that we are creating ourselves, we are following the narcissistic myth of someone who does not need anyone else, not even God.
We must present the truth of the most basic human relationships grounded in the complementarity of the sexes, he said, not in the limited, unisexual, self-sufficiency model that says men and women do not need each other to marry, to have sex, and to conceive.
The father helps a child discover external reality and the law. He reveals and shows the child how to enter into the world, he said.
The mother helps cultivate a child’s internal reality, including his or her imagination and spiritual side through singing songs and telling stories. She helps the child discover relationship and provides support and recognition."
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