Friend was violent with me

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I have a post-traumatically stressed out roomie who gets drunk/stoned and violent with me and has been so with others. Please pray that I can get out of here as I cannot now afford a place on my own. The latest relapse is a result of spending Christmas with her pot-smoking/pot-supplying sister, who is the genetic child of the step-father who raped her as a child. She sabotages her step-sister, who has been slow in getting therapy from a local church and her family history is one of divorce and violence all around. I’ve been remodeling a house that has more and more money-pit potential as I discover new issues. I need a miracle, please.

Tonight around 6:30 I got stabbed in the face with a ballpoint when I got in her face for making fun of my being upset at her pot smoking. It’s absolutely retarding for her, not mood-elevating. And she was smoking pot in the apartment last night while I was here, and I was angry about that as she promised NEVER to do that. I have my own family issues of abuse and a brother that poisoned my whole family and anybody he could with barrages of ugly emails during mom’s final months, telling people I stole money from her when he and my other brother were looting her. He molested me as a child and was older, huge and constantly physically abusive. And my old parish priest was more interior decorator than priest and sided with the boys when mom died and they laid into me wholeheartedly, as did the police when bro told them I was crazy and my stalking complaints against him were imaginary. Got it? Let’s reverse the curse with prayer.

I told roomie I wouldn’t call the police if she vacated the premises. So that’s that. I have counseled rape victims and know this level of trauma is way beyond me. And I have helped abused women and know this is a really ugly dilemma. Feel free to lecture me but most of all please pray as that helps my mind clear and lets me move forward. Abused people like myself and my roomie have actual brain damage, and passive responses seen even in abused animals studies, and I’m exploring why with all my smarts I could not work around this horrible dead-end. I was also a shaken baby kinda type as my pre-school teacher used to indulge herself. So let’s pray for divine intervention. I note that in times when I have called the cops on her, the neighbors–also pot smoking alcoholics–back her up and say my defending myself was the attack and so forth.
 
Lecture you? No way.
Hopefully you will recover soon from this shattering experience.
Love and prayers.
 
Come Holy Spirit.
Please remove this tendency for nordskoven to be the subject of false accusations and abuse. Please fill and surround him.
Angels of God please surround him and lead him.
St Michael please guard him.
 
Oh glorious apostle St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the name of the traitor who delivered thy beloved Master into the hands of His enemies has caused thee to be forgotten by many, but the Church honors and invokes thee universally as the patron of hopeless cases–of things despaired of. Pray for me who am so miserable; make use, I implore thee, of that particular privilege accorded thee of bringing visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need, that I may receive the consolations and succor of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations and sufferings, particularly those of nordskoven, and that I may bless God with thee and all the elect throughout eternity. I promise thee, O blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor, and I will never cease to honor thee as my special and powerful patron, and to do all in my power to encourage devotion to thee. Amen
 
She called and asked me to go to the casino. I said no. Then she said she wants to get an overnight bag…I asked her if she really just forgot her pot and she said yes. So let’s pray for all the abuse victims who are clawing their way into oblivion with drugs and alcohol and entertainment of all sorts. She’s not a Catholic but seems better when she goes to Mass. She walked out of Christmas Eve Mass because the sermon included forgiveness and she can’t grasp a God Who would forgive a child rapist. I noted that’s only if they repent. Didn’t register. Pray for a breakthrough for her and all who are running away from God.
 
Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy Kingdom, come. Thy will, be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive all those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. AMEN
 
Hail Mary, full of grace
The Lord is with thee
Blessed art thou amongst women
And blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus
Holy Mary, Mother of God
Pray for us sinners
Now and at the hour of our death

Amen
 
Our father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kindgom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliever us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be world without end. Amen.
 
O glorious apostle St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the name of the traitor who delivered thy beloved Master into the hands of His enemies has caused thee to be forgotten by many, but the Church honors and invokes thee universally as the patron of hopeless cases–of things despaired of. Pray for me who am so miserable; make use, I implore thee, of that particular privilege accorded thee of bringing visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need, that I may receive the consolations and succor of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations and sufferings, particularly those of the abused and their abusers, and that I may bless God with thee and all the elect throughout eternity. I promise thee, O blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor, and I will never cease to honor thee as my special and powerful patron, and to do all in my power to encourage devotion to thee. Amen
 
Our father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kindgom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliever us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be world without end. Amen.
 
Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name;
Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners, now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father
and to the Son
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning
is now and ever shall be
world without end.
Amen.
 
Our father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kindgom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliever us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be world without end. Amen.
 
**Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.**

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Our father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kindgom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliever us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be world without end. Amen.
 
Our father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kindgom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliever us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be world without end. Amen.
 
Dear Lord,

nordskoven is lifting a very heavy cross.

nordskoven feels weary, and tired.

nordskoven is reliving her past of abuse through this cross.

Father, You that said ask in my name and you shall receive, Please Father (Abba), we ask that You help nordskoven with this cross.

FATHER (Abba), we ask that You MOVE this cross.

FATHER, PLEASE GIVE A SOLUTION TO THIS CROSS

A SOLUTION THAT IS ACCORDING TO YOUR WILL!!!.

Oh Loving Father, You that came to this world, and lifted Your cross to save us!

You that gave the Holy Spirit to Your Church, and Let us know that there is no Mountain that cannot be moved through faith in You.

Let Your Will be done with this cross.

Amen!
 
Our Father, who art in Heaven,
Hallowed be Thy name.
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us,
And lead us not into temptation,
But deliver us from evil
Amen
 
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