No homosexual behavior is not evil, its just advised against in TRADITION.
Not in an infallible dogma.
And the harder you judge other the harder you will be judged yourself.
And proselytizing is not the way, in any case.
Thats my point.
Plus read this:
vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P4W.HTM
Things are not black and white, nor does one size fit all.
Oh, we judge. Not only CAN we judge, but in many cases we MUST judge. We judge objective actions and behaviours. We do NOT judge the state of someone’s soul or say with certainty that, yeah, this or that guy is hellbound.
And as for your little error on homosexual behaviour: nope, it’s not merely against "t"radition, but is definitely contrary to both Scripture and "T"radition. It may not have been defined using the extraordinary formula of Papal Infallibility, but it is indeed part of the ordinary Magisterium of the Church, and as such, does fall under the scope of infallibility and requires assent of both religion and intellect. The Church teaches:
2357 Homosexuality refers to relations between men or between women who experience an exclusive or predominant sexual attraction toward persons of the same sex. It has taken a great variety of forms through the centuries and in different cultures. Its psychological genesis remains largely unexplained. Basing itself on Sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity,141 tradition has always declared that "homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered."142 They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.
2358 The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God’s will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.
2359 Homosexual persons are called to chastity. By the virtues of self-mastery that teach them inner freedom, at times by the support of disinterested friendship, by prayer and sacramental grace, they can and should gradually and resolutely approach Christian perfection.
None of that is merely “in my opinion”. If I were to say “In my opinion, the Church teaches that…” that would be worthless and I would be exalting myself as the authority. But Scripture clearly tells us that Christ gave authority to his Church, not to us individually. The only reason I believe it in the first place is because the Church teaches it, not because it suits me. If I see two homosexuals in a homosexual relationship, or two heterosexuals committing adultery, can I say they are sinning? Yes, I can, and if my relationship with them is close enough, I must. Dare I condemn them to hell? No I can’t, as none of us can.
And why are you quoting Canon Law? That’s apples and oranges. That section is about penalties in the Church, and while related, they are of a legal, not moral nature. Teachings of faith and morals are coded in the Catechism, not Canon Law. The Catechism tells us what is right and wrong. Canon Law tells us what is legal and illegal (which of course may also be right and wrong).
So no, we are not going to be wishy-washy Catholics. Our first duty is to the truth, not to any one’s opinions or hurt feelings.