Friends vs. Disciples

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Maybe I’ve heard this before and just didn’t notice. Today I went to another church for mass because there was simply no parking available at my own. The priest at this other church used the word “friends” instead of the word “disciples” during the Eucharistic prayer. I found it unsettling, so I thought I’d come here and ask for some opinions on the matter. Is this a big deal?
 
He probably used the EP #1 for Masses of Reconciliation. That uses the word “friends.” That would be an appropriate EP for use during Lent.
 
Maybe I’ve heard this before and just didn’t notice. Today I went to another church for mass because there was simply no parking available at my own. The priest at this other church used the word “friends” instead of the word “disciples” during the Eucharistic prayer. I found it unsettling, so I thought I’d come here and ask for some opinions on the matter. Is this a big deal?
It’s not a big deal in that it does not invalidate the Consecration.

It is a big deal in that it is a sign of ignorance of the liturgical norms or outright defiance against the authority of the Bishop or Church.

I will agree if this was a Mass for a Parish Reconciliation service then it would be acceptable. But I take it was the Mass for Ash Wednesday.
 
Yes, it was a noon mass for Ash Wednesday. They seemed to be in evangelical mode anticipating the huge turn out. They even passed out information pamphlets about their church with phone numbers and Baptism and Sacrament schedules, and made note within to welcome all the visitors they expected.

I was just a bit disturbed because friends are not disciples. they’re two very different relationships. I wasn’t worried the consecration would be invalidated by it! I looked thru the four Eucharistic prayers in my Sunday missal, and all four used the word disciple, not friend. The words are just not interchangeable.

I wonder if it’s a common practice elsewhere, or if maybe it was just another evangelical strategy for this particular church?
 
It’s not a big deal in that it does not invalidate the Consecration.

It is a big deal in that it is a sign of ignorance of the liturgical norms or outright defiance against the authority of the Bishop or Church.

I will agree if this was a Mass for a Parish Reconciliation service then it would be acceptable. But I take it was the Mass for Ash Wednesday.
The Eucharistic Prayer for Masses of Reconciliation has nothing to do with a reconciliation service (at which there would be no EP since reconciliation is not celebrated at a Mass)

There are two EPs for masses of reconciliation. They can be used at any mass with the tone of the mass is reconciliation…or at any mass for that matter if the priest chooses to use it. One of our priests uses it very often.
The prayer in question is found on page 1122-1127 in the Roman Missal (aka the Sacramentary).
 
Thanks Joannm, I was able to find it online. I only have a Sunday missal, and it did not include anything but the four main Eucharistic prayers.

Reading thru it, it really is just perfect for the mass that was celebrated yesterday most especially considering all the visitors. I’m reassured and relieved! The church I normally attend is very traditional, so when I attend other parishes there is often more than a few differences that leave me in a state of wonder.
Father, from the beginning of time you have always done what is good for man so that we may be holy as you are holy.
Look with kindness on your people gathered here before you; send forth the power of your Spirit so that these gifts may become for us the body and blood of your beloved Son, Jesus the Christ, in whom we have become your sons and daughters.
When we were lost and could not find the way to you, you loved us more than ever; Jesus, your Son, innocent and without sin, gave himself into our hands and was nailed to a cross. Yet before he stretched out his arms between heaven and earth in the everlasting sign of your covenant, he desired to celebrate the Paschal feast in the company of his disciples.
While they were at supper, he took bread and gave you thanks and praise. He broke the bread, gave it to his disciples, and said:
Take this, all of you, and eat it;
this is my body which will be given up for you.
At the end of the meal, knowing that he was to reconcile all things in himself by the blood of his cross, he took the cup filled with wine. Again he gave you thanks, handed the cup to his** friends**, and said:
Take this, all of you, and drink from it;
this is the cup of my blood, the blood of the new and everlasting covenant. It will be shed for you and for all so that sins may be forgiven. Do this in memory of me.
We do this in memory of Jesus Christ, our Passover and our lasting peace. We celebrate his death and resurrection and look for the coming of that day when he will return to give us the fullness of joy. Therefore we offer you, God ever faithful and true, the sacrifice which restores man to your friendship.
Father, look with love on those you have called to share in the one sacrifice of Christ. By the power of your Holy Spirit make them one body, healed of all division.
Keep us all in communion of mind and heart with {Benedict} our Pope, {name of local bishop} our bishop. Help us to work together for the coming of your kingdom, until at last we stand in your presence to share the life of the saints, in the company of the Virgin Mary and the apostles, and of our departed brothers and sisters whom we commend to your mercy.
Then, freed from every shadow of death, we shall take our place in the new creation and give you thanks through Christ, our risen Lord.
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Tanks again!
 
The Eucharistic Prayer for Masses of Reconciliation has nothing to do with a reconciliation service (at which there would be no EP since reconciliation is not celebrated at a Mass)

There are two EPs for masses of reconciliation. They can be used at any mass with the tone of the mass is reconciliation…or at any mass for that matter if the priest chooses to use it. One of our priests uses it very often.
The prayer in question is found on page 1122-1127 in the Roman Missal (aka the Sacramentary).
I don’t believe that R1 and R2 are intended for use at regular Parish masses. But then I have not gone and looked up the intended use of R1 and R2. However R1 and R2 in my Missal both say Disciples.

C1 and C2 both say friends and C3 says Friends for the Consecration of the Bread and then Disciples for the Consecration of the Cup. C1-3 are only to be used at Childrens Masses where the majority of participents are children and a few adults, which does not seem to be the OP’s case either.
 
I don’t believe that R1 and R2 are intended for use at regular Parish masses. But then I have not gone and looked up the intended use of R1 and R2. However R1 and R2 in my Missal both say Disciples.
R1 says “disciples” for the consecration of the host and “friends” for the consecration of the chalice.

As for when R1 and R2 may be used: “The texts may also be used after the Holy Year in Masses when the mystery of reconciliation is a special theme of the celebration.” (Eucharistic Prayers for Masses of Reconciliation, Introduction, n. 2)
 
R1 says “disciples” for the consecration of the host and “friends” for the consecration of the chalice.

As for when R1 and R2 may be used: “The texts may also be used after the Holy Year in Masses when the mystery of reconciliation is a special theme of the celebration.” (Eucharistic Prayers for Masses of Reconciliation, Introduction, n. 2)
??? Mine says Disciples in both places for R1. ??? Printing error?? Not good.
 
There are Masses for Children which uses the word friends. I heard this at one Parish and almost laughed. I know that’s bad, but come on - friends?
 
I’m looking at the Roman Missal. date? I have to look later.
I have “the second typical edition of the Missale Romanum (1975), March 1, 1985, for use in the diocese of the United States of America. Published by Authority of the Bishop’s Committee on the Liturgy, National Conference of Catholic Bishops.” It was published by Catholic Book Publishing Corp., N.Y.

Reconciliation 1 says: “He broke the bread, gave it to his disciples, and said” and then “Again he gave you thanks, handed the cup to his friends, and said” on page 1124.
 
You own a sacramentary? How come? Just curious.
You kind of answered it: curiosity! But it’s deeper than that. I own one for a few reasons…


  1. *]I’m an amateur studier of the liturgy
    *]It has a lot of resources that lay people just never get around to hearing (like prayers for before and after Mass)
    *]I like knowing what the official (i.e. correct) order of Mass is
    *]It has the basic order of Mass in Latin in the back
    *]It’s not available in its entirety online (as far as I know)
    *]It’s a good teaching tool and a helpful resource in Bible Studies and RCIA
    *]It’s a reference material for personal work I do (such as blog posts)
 
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