Frighten and worried because of an Ex

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I’m a former foster-child and was raised in Islam, and became a christain in the late 80’s. At that time I was pregnet and lost the child while attending school full-time in College, it was my second miscarriage. The person who told me about Jesus I married a year later. After being mentally abuse beside being degrated from my ex, I left the marriage and the state where I’m from. What the number one reason for leaving was he had told me that he was driving his motorcycle around flashing minors his privates. Since we did not have any children I felt nothing was holding me back.

To the present I finished college finally, and been married for just about six years now. (it was eleven years gap from my divorced to my new wedding date) I have children; I joined the catholic church almost two years ago with the R.C.I.A. classes.

I had joined a social network online with my current husband aware of this (not using my real name but something unique), I had posted photos of my family, parties from birthday’s etc. Also I had google my ex to see if he was still alive, I shouldn’t have. I started getting messages from my ex with some alias name, only he would know me by pictures. He sent me death threats, said I’m a whore for leaving him, and I gave him AIDS; Besides that he copied & paste all my photos from my profile and posted them to various sites asking anyone do they know me, and where have they seen me. He joined a moms group saying I’m a bad mom and he can testified to that. This person has made a group about me saying all kinds of mean and untrue things.

I did canceled my membership to the site and delete everything I had on my profile, yet I’m finding out that he’s continue to post things about me. My full maiden name besides date of birth is being posted on the site.

He believes he’s on a mission from god and writes like I left him yesterday, yet he doesn’t remember why I left him.

I’ve contact authorities, but nothing has been done since he uses alias and he’s in a different state. Any advice would be welcome
 
PRAY! PRAY! PRAY! which I’m sure you’re already doing. I feel for you, my sister has an ex boyfriend who lives in town who bothers her a lot, only she won’t report him, and we can’t because we don’t know details about him. If you gave the authorities your old address from when you lived with him, wouldn’t they be able to track him, or has this been done already to no avail?
Where people fail God doesn’t. Pray for his conversion, and for the protection of youself and your family. I myself would begin a strong devotion to St. Michael and the Holy Angels of Almighty God…they are so helpful. Continue to pray (or begin) the Rosary and ask the Queen of Angels for her help. St. Louis de Montfort said that the Virgin will send battalions of Angels to the rescue so that nobody could claim that one of her servants went to her in vain. (of course, she does it for love, but a good point that was made.) Your in my prayers. Keep us all posted on how things go.:hug3:

Oh, call monasteries of nuns and monks, and inform all holy priests that you know, explain the situation and ask them for prayers. Whenever something big comes up that is the first thing that I do. One last thing, have Masses offered for him if you can, for his conversion.
 
Time to consider a protective order. Call your local police department or a womans shelter as both of them can guide you through the process. You want one thing. To protect yourself and your family. A protective order makes it a crime to try and contact you. If he continues after the order it is then a crime and eventually he will be taken out of your life. Till then pray for your family and make sure your husband and your children know that he is out there. It is time to go over the stranger protocols with those precious kids of yours and go the extra mile and have a friend you know but they do not test the children to see if they learned the lesson.
 
Lord of the Powers be with us, for in times of distress we have no other help but You.
Lord of the Powers, have mercy on us.
 
St Michael, please come to battle for our sister in Christ.

Protect her from evil, hold back the forces of evil. Surround her with your upmost protection.
 
Please talk to your priest, he may be able to get you more direct legal aid or advice
 
Jodi said:
Time to consider a protective order. Call your local police department or a womans shelter as both of them can guide you through the process. You want one thing. To protect yourself and your family. A protective order makes it a crime to try and contact you. If he continues after the order it is then a crime and eventually he will be taken out of your life. Till then pray for your family and make sure your husband and your children know that he is out there. It is time to go over the stranger protocols with those precious kids of yours and go the extra mile and have a friend you know but they do not test the children to see if they learned the lesson.
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I’ve been praying. I’ve contacted the FBI and they refer me to the abuse line of my local police department. The problem is he’s in another state, he uses alias. I have not seen this person since 1990, and since I got my divorced in 1992 he’s been threating me via phone, internet what, but hasn’t actually came to my state. It’s hard to have a protective order when I don’t actually know where he’s at, and it’s been twenty years since I kindof know what he looks like. He found me very easy, yet I don’t believe he knows my "new "married name so far. I really hated that he copy & paste all of my photos and put ugly remarks and a giant pig head of them.
 
Please go to see your priest.

Dear Father, please protect this family from all harm. Place angels around their home. Heal the heart of this man Lord. He seems to have much hate in his heart. Your will be done Lord… In Jesus name I pray… AMEN
 
pyropam said:
Please go to see your priest.

Dear Father, please protect this family from all harm. Place angels around their home. Heal the heart of this man Lord. He seems to have much hate in his heart. Your will be done Lord… In Jesus name I pray… AMEN
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I have talked to my priest and will continue. Thank you.
 
In no case should legal advice be sought online. Please persist in contacting your local authorities and/or gain the advice of trusted legal counsel.
 
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