It is only his own business.
In a way it is his own business, he is responsible for his own actions. But this does not refute that he can commit immoral actions against himself. For while we are the proprietor of ourselves, it’s not as if we brought ourselves into existence and created our own nature. Sure, we shape ourselves by the choices we make… but
something(read: a being with defining qualities) has to exist there first before it can choose.
No, I did not say that. The good old one-eyed monk and the jade-gate both have three, natural uses. One: elimination of some waste products, two: procreation, and three: pleasure seeking. These three are all natural, and relatively independent of each other.
We need to use them for elimination (that is biological necessity). Both the pleasure seeking and the procreative parts are optional. It is quite possible to procreate without the pleasure, and also to seek pleasure without procreation. To say that pleasure seeking without the intent to procreate is somehow “wrong” is a religious claim.
You are confusing my position in a number of ways. First, I am not saying that pleasure seeking without the intent to procreate is necessarily wrong. Second, I am not making a religious claim–not once have I used Church doctrine to justify my position.
While I agree that it is possible in this case to pursue pleasure seeking and procreation separately (ie. contraceptive intercourse or in vitro fertilization), it is not moral. It is true that those functions you list are “relatively independent”. I agree and don’t really have a problem with that. But actively going
against a inherent function is destructive.
Contraceptive intercourse goes
against the action’s innate potential for new life. It’s as simple as that. Having the 3 functions be relatively independent doesn’t matter… it’s the active contradiction of the function that matters and is destructive.
But you try to say that it is also wrong in a secular environment. How? And why?
I never directly advocated the Church’s teaching on the matter, if I am not mistaken. But more to the point, I am only interested in what is true. This is a philosophy sub-forum, so arguments stand and fall on their own merits. There are good arguments for natural law, and all of the arguments I have found against natural law are either misunderstandings or simply untrue.
Basically, some may not care if the world ‘goes to hell in a hand-basket’, to use the popular phrase. But I want to care.
Since there is no “natural law”, it is worthless to concentrate on that, until you can establish what natural law is.
I already know what natural law is. Why must I play on your terms, why can’t you play on mine? You know, you could just say that you don’t understand and ask for an explanation.
Natural laws in general are those moral prescriptions discoverable by human reason. Traditionally it has been grounded on the nature (read: capacities) of human beings.
One isn’t the origin of his own existence, so it is probably a good idea for one to discover how one ticks or is supposed to function.
If you ask for their permission, and they grant you the freedom to educate them, then it is fine. Otherwise it is still none of your business.
They can show their permission by listening or walking away. Same thing applies to science and other areas of learning and just conversation in general.
But if your neighbor watches X-rated movies in his home, that does not hurt anyone. You cannot claim that you are “hurt” by them.
First and foremost objectifying others as a means of self-gratification is wrong.
I only claim that secondarily and sometimes indirectly (though perhaps also directly), when someone hurts themselves they are affecting me. Not because my feelings are hurt but because of the objective negative effects of their actions.
I keep asking about the specifics, just how does contraception hurt you? Get specific, don’t just say that it is against some natural law. Please, do not waste any more of my time on generalities. Stick to specifics.
But saying that a specific action is against natural law is very specific. It means that it hurts those who engage in it.
Only secondarily was it my claim that others are affected. When one engages in selfish behavior it starts to make them a selfish person. And the acts committed by a selfish person will often have consequences against others.
How it hurts me? At least one of the myriad of ways it hurts me is by promoting a culture of apparent “consequence-free” sex. That waiting until marriage to give yourself completely to the other person is nonsensical and even contemptible. “Are you somehow better than the rest of us?” So alienation is one way I am being affected.
It is also helping to destroy the country I live in and many others by promoting selfishness above responsibility. It contributes, however much, to a lack of stable marriages, and therefore, the health of the country.