From crush to obsession?

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We have done that, and we are in the process of keeping him out of school until the admin makes changes. Everything is documented. The Archdiocese knows about it…and it really rattled the principal. I didn’t think police had any jurisdiction on private property.
 
So the school is going by he said/she said, but they checked out the allegations made against your son and won’t do the same for the allegations against her? If you haven’t, I would point that out in the strongest terms possible. I don’t know about laws in the US, but in the UK if an act at school constitutes a crime (which the grabbing of genitals does), you can inform the police. You could tell the police even if bullying didn’t add up to a crime. I would assume there would be something similar in the US? It may be worth checking it out.
 
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No, it’s not close to sexual assault- IT IS!
And it needs to be brought to the attention of the police and charges need to be pressed.
If a young man did this to a young woman, there would be he** to pay. He would be arrested, kicked out of school and once convicted, put on the sex offenders registry.
Just because it is a girl, doesn’t mean it’s not assault.
 
If someone assaults another person, the police can and should be called even in a private school. The police will force the schools hand that something needs to be done. You need to go to them now, not in the future because it should have been done right away.

Ask your school what their policy on bullying is. It may be in their handbook, or online. Your son is being bullied.
 
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Sorry about the flippancy regarding our nickname for her. The homeroom teacher is hardly qualified to handle neurotypical children, let alone those with invisible disabilities. Said teacher teaches algebra and 75% of his students (honors and college prep) are failing his class. Parents are complaining left and right, and he’s saying he has a dumb bunch of kids. So, my thought is a more compassionate teacher would work for her if she did have issues.

The latest was her and her sidekick getting up from their seats, sneaking to where my son sits and demanding the boy who was talking to my son stop.
The kid didn’t comply. Later, a kid cornered him in the bathroom, asked him his nationality and said he looked Middle Eastern. So, we now have my son being called a Middle Eastern Islamic terrorist. And we cannot pull him from his school because the only other school in the vicinity has accepted all the transfers for the year.

So, we have a 6’2” elite volleyball player who has started 2 nasty rumors, tried to grabs my kid’s genitals last week (reported and witnessed) yet is deemed one of the most popular and devout girls in the school. If this sounds crazy, it’s because it is. Where’s the protection for my kid? Further, this school is not equipped to deal with kids with severe behavioral issues. I put out thousands tomget my son to where he’s at. Why is he getting penalized.
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Get your kid into the other class.

You don’t know what is going on in the administration behind closed doors. You just don’t.

Why leave him in danger because “principles” That’s CRAZY. You are basically saying that your view of your son being punished and your FEELINGS are more important than your son’s actual safety. This is disgusting. I’m not saying it’s fair but your job is not to be “fair” it’s to protect your kid.

Also, school or not he was assaulted. Talk to the police.
 
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The police have jurisdiction over any criminal behavior in their area, even on private property. Go to the police before she makes an allegation about your son or before her minions go further than just the bullying. I’m really surprised the school hasn’t called them given what psychochick has done so far!
 
This woman is doing everything in her power to protect her son. It’s not very charitable to say she is leaving him in danger when she is doing everything she can to help him.

Read the whole thread to see what the OP has done so far.
 
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This woman is doing everything in her power to protect her son. It’s not very charitable to say she is leaving him in danger when she is doing everything she can to help him.

Read the whole thread to see what the OP has done so far.
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Incorrect. She was offered to move her son to another classroom. She has chosen to let him stay in the one where he is being bullied and abused because she believes that he should not be the one to move. She has left him in a dangerous situation because she feels it’s a punishment. I’ve read the thread. She’s done the basics.
 
Oh…I am. My hubby and I would never put him in danger. Sadly, he’s made friends there and doesn’t want to leave. But, the transfer papers are in.
 
This is high school, and it was another lunch period (my bad). The school would not let us change home rooms. They did move his locker to the other side of the school away from his home room. I am not taking this hit. If he moved lunch, he would be placed in a different world history class. My husband said NO…not me. (My mom recently passed and he’s been delegated some of the school stuff.) Son has friends in lunch, and also didn’t want to move.
 
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Oh…I am. My hubby and I would never put him in danger. Sadly, he’s made friends there and doesn’t want to leave. But, the transfer papers are in.
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His crotch was grabbed. He’s being verbally harassed and name-called by this girl’s friends. He is in danger. If this happened in a workplace as an adult, he would have a bonafide civil case…and likely decent monetary pay out.

He is in danger. No, he’s not getting mauled, but he’s being subjected to unacceptable mental issues.

Yes, he’s made friends but transferring classes is far different than transferring entire schools and getting him away from this girl and her friends should be top priority.
 
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This is high school, and it was another lunch period (my bad). The school would not let us change home rooms. They did move his locker to the other side of the school away from his home room. I am not taking this hit. If he moved lunch, he would be placed in a different world history class. My husband said NO…not me. (My mom recently passed and he’s been delegated some of the school stuff.) Son has friends in lunch, and also didn’t want to move.
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Husband said no so you left him?

Yeah. I think this goes beyond a parenting issue then.
 
It is. But there are only so many private schools in the area suitable, and I do not want to send him to public school.
 
Why was he not allowed to change homerooms? Can you insist he does until you can take him out?

If I were you, I would be asking the school why they seem so determined to let your son be at risk. And wait for their answer.
 
You are being cruel. We were talking about a lunch period with hundreds of kids and many potential observers. I didn’t think she’d act that CRAZY. No offense, but I mentioned I lost my mom suddenly the dad after Thanksgiving. My own recovery from a traumatic bone break has been horrible, at best. Come over to my house and show me how you would do it, OK?
 
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It is. But there are only so many private schools in the area suitable, and I do not want to send him to public school.
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You are no doubt in a hard spot, but you are counting things as “suitable” that are not. This school is NOT a suitable environment for him.

If this was the other way around, if you had a daughter who had a boy who was doing this to her, she would have been out of the school at the first sign of an issue. But because this is a boy his sexual abuse and the administration’s neglect of doing anything dosn’t make this school “unsutable”
 
The admin gave some BS answer about knowing who is in each homeroom. We are fed-up beyond belief.
 
So, how long has he attended this particular school? Has he had negative interactions with classmates in the past?
 
You are putting words in my mouth and will no longer answer your accusations.
 
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